I’m a female member (and a beginner).

Maezawa from the president’s office here. I’ll answer as well. Thank you for your question. Ah, in that case, your profile has probably been hidden by the staff. I’m not sure why they wouldn’t tell the woman—perhaps the company rules have changed. They do this when a woman receives an overwhelming number of offers. (I’d consider five or six offers within a few days to be “overwhelming.”) So, if your profile is currently hidden, you probably won’t receive any offers no matter what you do. That said, I think it’s fine to tell the staff that you’d like to receive more offers. If you say something like, “I’d like to go on more dates. What should I do?” they may decide that you can handle a large number of offers and put your profile back on display. Wait—are you saying that you haven’t received any offers for several months since then? If so, your profile may have accidentally been left hidden. Or perhaps you’ve received negative feedback from men you went on dates with, and it’s been posted on your profile. It’s also possible that your rating has gone down because of last-minute cancellations, or something similar. > There’s a man who seems likely to develop into a long-term relationship. Would he feel uncomfortable if I remained registered with the club instead of withdrawing? I’m unsure whether I should leave. If he hasn’t said anything, I don’t think you need to worry about it. However, some men may become unhappy if you post new profile comments or upload new selfies. I recommend talking to the staff and asking whether they can hide those updates from that particular man only. > Are there many people who have been registered for more than six months? There seem to be quite a few.

I’m Taro, a male member. If you’re getting five or six inquiries over a few days, I’d say that’s a pretty decent level of success. From the men’s perspective, there are basically two screens: one showing members in registration order, and another like “What’s New.” Posting a selfie or a comment will put you near the top of What’s New, while having your photos retaken will bring you near the top of the former list. Since men generally make their first judgment based on photos, if you’re uploading private photos, it’s better to choose ones with a different vibe from the top photo the club took for you. That should help you appeal to people you might otherwise miss. Heavily edited photos, landscapes, and flower pictures tend to make less of an impression. If there are men who could develop into a long-term relationship, you should value them. In general, I think people who are new to dating clubs tend to care more about that kind of thing. Men like the “pure and innocent” type, after all（笑). In any case, leaving the club or putting your membership on hold is an effective card to play, so use it wisely depending on the other person. There are women who stay registered for a long time. However, I think the average length of membership for female members is around six months. Since information such as the number of new female members is disclosed, you can calculate it from there. It’s probably best to assume that women who remain registered for years are in the minority. From a man’s perspective, some may appreciate the experience and the fact that things move quickly, while others may dislike the feeling that she’s become jaded. If you want to achieve the results you’re looking for, gathering information is important. If you look beyond this site, you’ll find all kinds of other sources too. I think it’s best to collect a variety of information, but not let it dictate your actions—instead, make decisions based on your own principles.

I’m Date◎Yume, a male member. Since a dating club is a place for building relationships, I think you should prioritize finding someone you’re likely to continue seeing. It’s certainly good when offers keep coming in, but men have their preferences too, and some may think, “Maybe I’ll pass on this one.” Even if you’re no longer receiving offers but the relationship continues, that’s essentially the same as having uninterrupted offers—and as you grow closer to your partner, you’ll likely be able to continue seeing each other without stress. Depending on the situation, you don’t necessarily have to cancel your membership; taking a temporary leave is also an option. Also, if the financial support you’re hoping for is insufficient, I think it’s best not to stop making an effort to appeal to male members. From a man’s perspective, he may feel that his financial support isn’t enough, or he may simply think, “She’s an enthusiastic woman who’s serious about the relationship.” There are quite a few women who have remained registered for several years.

I’m Hikōki, a male member. > I received five or six offers during the first few days after registering, but then they suddenly stopped. Ideally, you’d meet one or a few of the people who sent you offers—especially those who can smoothly schedule a date—and quickly find someone you can continue seeing over multiple dates and eventually develop a long-term relationship with. If you meet the people who made offers one by one or wait for the next offer, the offers may stop coming, and you could miss the chance to build a connection that might lead to a long-term relationship. You’ll receive the most offers on the first and second days, and the number will continue to decline as time passes. Only a small percentage of people continue receiving offers steadily after that. Also, men who make offers on the first or second day are often especially interested in you. As a result, there’s a higher chance that they’ll offer generous allowances and that the relationship may develop into a long-term arrangement, so you’re more likely to find someone with favorable terms. > I also heard that profile photos are retaken every six months. Are there many people who stay registered for more than six months? After six months, if you don’t indicate that you want to continue, your profile will essentially disappear from the site as a natural withdrawal. From the club’s perspective, members who aren’t receiving a steady stream of offers are treated more or less the same either way. > Would men feel uncomfortable if I remain registered without withdrawing from the club? I don’t think you need to worry about that. In fact, any man who would take issue with it probably isn’t worth your time. I think it’s best to take a break or withdraw when you personally no longer feel like meeting the people who have contacted you. I hope you meet someone who makes you feel that way.

I’m Kazu, a male member. > When I upload new selfies or update my comments, will something like “NEW!” appear on the male members’ side? They’ll be displayed in the “What’s new” section on the homepage as “New comment” or “Private photo,” just like for new members. > Would men find it off-putting if I stayed registered without leaving the club? It depends on the man. Unless he specifically says something, I think you can wait and see after you actually enter into a long-term relationship. > I heard profile photos are retaken every six months. Are there many people who stay registered for more than six months? Yes, there are quite a few. On the other hand, there are also quite a few women who leave after just a few months.