Female members, I imagine many of you have adult relationships (intimate) with multiple people.
How much do you worry about the risk of infections and such, and how do you manage it?
I’m scared, and I was thinking that if it’s for a month, it might be better to only have a relationship with one person.
I look forward to your answers.
Maezawa from the President’s Office will answer as well.
Thank you for your question.
> I’m scared, so I’m wondering if, for a one-month arrangement, I should only be involved with one person.
If you’re scared, I don’t think that alone would be enough.
The man would need to:
- Only be involved with you
- Not have done anything with any other women for at least a month before seeing you again
- Test negative for STIs right before meeting you (and show you the test results)
Without that, I feel you’d probably still be worried.
But realistically, I don’t think you could actually enforce all of this, and there’s no way to know whether you’re really the only one. He could also lie to you.
When you think about it that way, deciding how far to take these precautions is a difficult question.
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I’m Taro, a male member.
I try not to increase the number of partners as much as possible, choose people who don’t seem to be seeing lots of different partners, and if someone seems risky, I completely avoid mucous-membrane contact and wash immediately afterward. That’s about it, I guess.
Condoms are a must, but unprotected oral sex can be pretty risky too.
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I’m だて◎ゆめ, a male member.
Given the nature of relationship clubs, protection against sexually transmitted infections is the highest priority. I don’t believe there are many members with STIs, but there are occasional posts in this anonymous Q&A box from people who say they may have been infected.
When starting a relationship, please discuss things thoroughly with your partner and cooperate with each other to make it mutually beneficial.
Regardless of whether you’re male or female, if you’re seeing multiple partners, I assume you take complete precautions for both oral and intimate activities. Since I’m unable to do that, I’ve only had one partner since joining.
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