This is Mac, one of the respondents. In the previous question, there was some discussion about “faking it.” Kazu and the other men, what makes you feel that a woman is pretending?

I’m Paper Airplane, a male member. What I’m looking for is a natural flow with someone who isn’t overly experienced. On the other hand, unnatural progress or reactions just aren’t enjoyable. A natural flow after entering the hotel, a natural, mood-filled progression toward getting into bed, and a smooth, comfortable atmosphere once affection begins— If each of those steps feels off, the excitement never builds, there’s no thrill, and I can’t get into the mood to enjoy myself. When I first joined the club, I assumed nothing could ever surpass sex with a girlfriend. But then I thought, “Wait, seriously?!” Before I knew it, it had surpassed what I shared with my girlfriend… One of my long-term girlfriends has already drifted quite far away. When everything clicks between two people, it truly becomes a comfortable relationship. By contrast, there’s the awkwardness after entering the room, things not naturally progressing to a bath or getting into bed, the atmosphere feeling disjointed when moving from getting into bed to affection, suddenly moaning loudly as soon as affection begins, moving her body or hips, reactions that feel self-conscious and forced, or suddenly kissing intensely. At that point, such abrupt and unnatural reactions make me lose the mood and all motivation. It’s wonderful when things feel natural with a woman whose every movement is exactly what I’m looking for, without either of us having to say anything. And for the other person, being able to feel the same way is the best shortcut to making things work.

Maezawa from the CEO’s Office here as well. Thank you for your question. Now that you mention it, I’m not sure exactly what makes it feel like an act, but there does seem to be something unnatural about it.

I’m Flag Maker, a column writer. I didn’t answer this earlier, but if it’s an allowance-based relationship rather than something private, I honestly can’t tell whether she’s really coming or just pretending. She might genuinely be, but once I’m paying an allowance, I end up assuming it’s all fake. So when she gets to that point, I just take it as a signal that she’s saying, “Okay, time to wrap things up now.” ^^

Thanks for requesting me. I’m Kazu, a male member. When it comes to paid sex services, I feel like I’ve often met women who pretended to climax. But among the nonprofessionals I’ve met through dating clubs, I can’t immediately think of a single woman who pretended. As Mac said, many women at dating clubs don’t climax, and those who don’t aren’t the type to resort to something as crafty as pretending. It’s the same for men, but women don’t climax as if they’re simply pressing a button, do they? I believe climaxing is something you eventually reach as the result of accumulated foreplay. Even during that process, men are trying various things while watching the woman’s reactions. Ignoring that process—the gradual buildup of each individual reaction—and simply climaxing feels unnatural, so I assume it’s an act. Every once in a while, you discover a trick that can make a particular woman climax in three minutes. But even that isn’t something you figure out right after meeting her; I think it’s something you discover after being intimate with her again and again. More than that, there’s a certain atmosphere that makes it possible for her to climax in three minutes, so you have to start by creating that mood before moving on to foreplay. That, too, comes from building things up over time. P.S. Come to think of it, I was recently talking with my partner about men who are good at sex. According to her, a man who’s good in bed is someone who pays close attention to a woman’s reactions. It reminded me once again how important it is to watch how she responds. I wanted to ask her whether I was paying close enough attention to her reactions, but I thought it would be uncool to ask how I am in bed, so I managed to hold back（笑).