I’m the woman who found her papa’s phone calls unbearable and asked how to deal with them (https://universe-club.jp/help/questions/view/5750)

I think you’re right, Mac—it sounds like a form of domestic abuse. He doesn’t answer the phone because things aren’t going the way he wants: he can’t talk to you whenever he feels like it, and he starts thinking, “What is she doing where I can’t see her?” It all comes from a self-centered way of thinking. If you tell him you’re breaking up, he’ll probably suddenly change his attitude and say he doesn’t want to end things. It would be safest to leave before you get deeply caught up in a codependent relationship. The one silver lining is that every other man will start to seem wonderfully kind by comparison. (lol) Marika

I’m Taro, a male member. Thanks for pointing out the contrast in the question. I wonder who that was, anyway（笑). As for your question: when he calls you “like air,” I don’t think he’s looking down on you. I think it means he’s opened up to you enough to show his natural self. And if that’s how he is, then perhaps that’s simply his true nature. It sounds less like possessiveness and more like a desire to control you. If he’s doing this for some tactical reason, you might be able to resolve things by talking it out and clearing up the misunderstanding. But if this is just who he is, I don’t think he’ll change. If it’s beyond what you can tolerate, you should probably come up with an exit plan: find a new papa and move on to him. Try to handle it as smoothly as possible so you don’t create any unnecessary trouble. If you’re okay with spending some time without a papa, it’s even simpler—it just comes down to deciding how to end things. That said, rereading your question, it sounds like part of you may still want to continue. If so, why not try talking to him? Frame it constructively: “I like you, but this particular aspect is causing me stress, and I’m having a hard time with it.” A phone call might be difficult, but getting him to communicate at least through LINE, email, or some other digital channel would be progress. Maybe find an engineer papa and have him build you a chatbot, so you won’t even have to respond yourself(^^)v

Maezawa from the CEO’s Office will answer as well. Thank you for your question. > Why does he treat her harshly and get angry when she doesn’t answer his calls? It sounds like she’s the woman he’s liked the most so far, but she still doesn’t fully match his ideal. He probably just hopes she’ll become his 100% ideal woman. So I don’t think there’s any doubt that he likes her. That said, this must be extremely stressful for you, so I think you should have a proper discussion, even if you’re prepared for the possibility of ending things. You could write out the terms of the relationship and go over them one by one during the discussion, confirming whether each one can be followed. If he says he can’t agree to something, you’ll need to discuss how far he is willing to go. For example, if one of the terms is: “Never call me.” He might say that it’s unreasonable for him to never call. In that case, you could revise it to something like: “Calling once a week is acceptable, excluding calls to confirm the meeting place.” Then make any necessary revisions and, at the end, have him sign it. An arrangement between a married man and his mistress has no legal force in itself, but since it sets out the rules between the two of you, I think getting his signature still has meaning. Doing this may help correct any misunderstandings and give both of you a chance to compromise. If neither of you can compromise at all, then unfortunately, I think it would be best to end things. Also, if you feel you could put up with it for a monthly allowance of ¥500,000, you could simply say: “If you pay me ¥500,000 a month, I’ll do as you ask.” That might be an option as well.

I’m a male member, Paper Airplane. These days, people don’t call. That alone is unusual. It shows he’s far too desperate.

I’m in Seattle. Any give-and-take should stay within the allowance. There are plenty of men out there who won’t bombard you with calls.