Tips Feb 15, 2021 13:13

I’m a woman in my 30s.

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When I’m asked, “Do you like sex?” on the first date, I can’t bring myself to honestly say that I do, and often end up not being invited to meet a second time. What would be the right way to answer when asked a question like this? Until I joined the club, I had never been asked something like this at my age, so I’m not sure how to respond. Would a woman be seen as vulgar if she said she liked it? I would appreciate your advice. Thank you.
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Maezawa from the President’s Office here. Thanks for your question. Wait—wasn’t there a question during the interview asking whether you like H? In any case… If they asked, “Do you like H?” you could simply answer: “Is there anyone who doesn’t?” (The key is to give them a gentle smile when you say it.) That comes across as classy, too. If you’re comfortable answering directly, you can just say, “Yes, I do.” What Mac wrote also sounds good, though it may be a little more advanced. Since you can’t meet him a second time, I’m guessing you chose Dating Type B. He may be checking whether you’re only interested in dinner, or whether you’re open to being invited out again. So rather than worrying about whether your answer is “right,” he may simply be trying to find out whether it’s okay to ask you out again. If you’re unsure how to respond, you could try repeating the question back to him. If he asks, “Do you like H?” you can reply: “Do you like it, Mr. ○○?” If he says, “Of course I do,” you can answer: “Of course I do too.” Basically, you return the same question and answer. At that point, the man may ask, “Would you like to go to a hotel after this?” If so, you could say: “I chose Type B because I want to take my time and think about it. Would it be okay if I decide by our next meeting?” Of course, only if that’s what you genuinely feel comfortable with.
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I’m Kazu, a male member. There really are a lot of male members who ask questions like that, huh? (LOL) Since your answer probably won’t affect whether you meet again, I think anything would be fine. But I felt that answer might seem a little unsatisfying after you took the time to ask, so… “How about: ‘I like gentle sex with men I click with.’” By saying “with men I click with,” rather than just “I like it,” it doesn’t sound like you’re okay with just anyone. And “gentle” subtly signals that you’re not looking for anything rough. What do you think?
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