I’m a male member who joined three months ago. How much of my information is shared with women after I make them an offer?

Maezawa from the CEO’s office here—I’ll answer this one too. Thanks for your question. First of all, you should register your own profile yourself. Otherwise, women may feel uneasy. The information you enter will then be shared with women. The advantage is that you can control your own information. Women can also see what kind of man sent them an offer, which helps them feel a little more at ease. They may feel nervous if there’s no information about a man at all, and some women may even decline men who haven’t registered a profile. If you don’t register a profile, all they’ll be told is something like: “He’s a man in his 40s who works in real estate, enjoys surfing, and seems kind.” The information we provide is generally: your approximate age (the age you gave us when you joined（笑）), occupation, hobbies (the items you listed when you joined), and our impression of you at the time you joined. (And that impression can be pretty arbitrary too（笑）.) So we might write something like, “Surfing in winter?” Any man who casually answered “surfing” when he joined will keep having that hobby listed, so be careful. In any case, registering a profile is essential. Many men don’t upload photos, so it’s fine not to register one. However, I highly recommend uploading a heavily edited photo here. Men dislike edited photos, but women like them. Even if the edited photo looks nothing like the real you, apparently looking good is all that matters. So I recommend uploading a photo that’s been edited as much as possible to make you look handsome. If you’re wondering, “Which photo looks best?” feel free to contact me. I’ll choose one while also getting the opinions of our female staff（笑）. In short, the most flattering photo wins. Even if you look different in person, women won’t say anything as long as it’s still recognizably you. The key is to upload your most flattering photo. On the other hand, men don’t like heavily edited photos, so women shouldn’t edit their photos...

I’m Hikōki, a male member. When it comes to women who receive a lot of offers, even just a word or two can seem to subtly imply that they have the option of turning you down. Your usual interactions and conversations with the staff, as well as the feedback you give them, are important too. Naturally, staff will want to arrange dates with members who respond positively. They also subtly communicate, through their wording and overall tone, that women are free to choose as well.

Thank you for your question! I’m Maki from the Tokyo staff, and I’ll be answering. When we make an offer to a woman, we also share the male member’s profile with her. The information we provide includes the following: - His age (we tell her the general age range, such as “in his 40s”) - His occupation - His hobbies - The impression of his personality and overall demeanor formed by the staff member who met with him These are the four details we share. If you would like to introduce yourself to women in more detail, you can edit your profile under “Update Registration Information” on the members’ page. You can then choose to make the profile you created available to women you make offers to.

I’m だて◎ゆめ, a male member. I haven’t made any offers lately, but when information about me was shared only with the women I had offered to meet, it consisted of the profile I created myself, along with the club’s rough estimate of my age, occupation, and impression from the interview—or so I was told.