This is Kobayashi from the Tokyo branch.
If your husband or wife found out, I’d choose option ②—the arrangement was already high-risk, and now that it’s been discovered once, the risk has increased even further.
If your boyfriend or girlfriend found out, I’d probably take some time apart first and then decide what to do afterward…
Maezawa from the CEO’s office here as well.
Thank you for your question.
If you wanted to see him again, I think you would. If you felt it wasn’t going to work, you wouldn’t.
That’s all there is to it, in my opinion.
I’ve had a case like that, and there’s someone I’m still seeing long-term.
If she says, “I’d like to see you again,” I’ll meet her.
If she says, “Just one time…” I won’t.
In any case, based on the relationship you had up until then, I think you can tell whether it’s the kind of relationship that will continue no matter what happens.
In my case, I talked to her with the intention of continuing the relationship long-term. Judging from the details in your question, though, it doesn’t seem like she feels the same way.
If you’re unsure, I don’t think you need to meet her. If she still genuinely liked you, she wouldn’t be hesitating—she’d simply be waiting for you to come. It doesn’t seem like she has romantic feelings for you.
Also, one or two months is far too short a period, so I think it would be better to wait until around six months after March.
And, whether the other person is a man or a woman, I think you should be very cautious with anyone who says things like, “Even just once,” “Even just a phone call,” “Even just today,” or “Even just…” Those comments often show that they aren’t thinking about you at all. Someone who has plenty of leeway doesn’t use phrases like “just.”
I’m Paper Airplane, a male member.
