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Feb 12, 2021 22:41
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Mac-san said, “Does the questioner have a main papa?” so I thought about it, but just like Mac-san, I love all my papas equally.
I currently have three papas, and I genuinely adore each of them—not because they’re generous (well-paying) papas who give me a large allowance, but emotionally. I love them so much that I’d even want to have a child with any of them.
While I’m with each one, I feel the same way: “If I just had this one woman, I wouldn’t need anyone else. I want to stay by her side for the rest of my life. I truly feel that way.” Every time, with each of them, I think, “I want to be with just this papa forever!”
As for the question, “Don’t you find it difficult when you’re dating someone other than that papa? Don’t you think about your main papa?”—no, it isn’t difficult at all.
So I wanted to ask about men’s psychology. One papa continues to spend the most time with me and insists that I’m his main girl, while also making offers to other women. I’m wondering whether this comes from loving everyone equally, as I do, or whether he simply wants to see different women for physical reasons.
I haven’t designated any of my three papas as my main one. Like the image of polygamy in Islam, I’m able to love them all equally. But this particular papa seems to want me as his main girl while also wanting to get to know other women. What goes on in the mind of a man who thinks this way? Does he simply have certain faces or body types he likes, and love every woman who fits them equally? Or does he not love anyone at all? Is he trying to test how far his manliness will take him by going from one woman to another…? I just don’t understand. Sorry this is so rambling.
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I’m だて◎ゆめ, a male member.
> One papa wants to make me his main girlfriend while also getting to know other women.
> What’s going through the mind of a papa who thinks that way...? Is he trying to experiment by constantly switching from one woman to another...?
Since he says “while making you his main girlfriend,” I think that does mean you’re his main one.
That said, he may well be trying things out by going from one woman to another.
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お役に立てれば幸いです。
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Universe staff
Maezawa from the CEO’s office here—I’ll answer as well.
Thank you for your question.
Assuming that men have an ideal type of woman in mind, I don’t think it’s easy to find someone who matches that ideal 100%.
So even if he knows there’s no woman better suited to him than you, he may still be thinking, “What if…?” and wanting to see what other women are out there.
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🏅 40歳でリアル異世界転生したオッサン l 元金融マン → 現AI界隈
出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
Age: 40s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Flagmaker, a column writer.
It’s sexual desire—sexual desire! Don’t overthink it, lol.
Sorry for messaging so late at night. I’m heading out for an early-morning round of golf.
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スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m in Seattle.
A woman who’s great in bed.
A woman who’s fun to talk to.
A woman with a great personality.
A woman whose looks I’m attracted to.
A woman overflowing with knowledge.
I feel like I appreciate each of these qualities equally.
If I met a woman who had everything, I might settle on just one, but that’s pretty difficult.