It’s been eight months since I joined.
Not long after joining, I became intimate with three beautiful women.
Thanks to them, I had a wonderful time.
I hadn’t had many experiences with women over the course of my life.
“Without even touching the warm blood beneath a woman’s skin,
isn’t it lonely, you who masturbate?”
I’m still seeing one female member.
However, lately I’ve started to feel that it isn’t all that different from taking care of things myself.
The quality of the enjoyment is different, of course, and that’s fine in its own way.
But I don’t feel there’s all that much difference in how enjoyable it is.
Is this way of thinking somewhat unhealthy?
Am I being too casual in the way I relate to women?
Maezawa from the CEO’s Office here.
Thank you for your question.
> Lately, though, I’ve started to feel that it isn’t all that different from taking care of things myself.
If that’s how you feel, I don’t think you need to force yourself to pursue it.
If you enjoy the conversation, then conversation alone is fine. If you enjoy physical contact, that’s fine too.
At the very least, it sounds like you enjoy meeting women, so it might be worth figuring out exactly what you find enjoyable about it.
I’ve heard women say that they used to have an adult relationship (intimate), but now they receive the same amount for dinner only (no intimacy).
I don’t know how much that “same amount” is, but I’ve heard of someone receiving around ¥100,000 per meeting.
I imagine the man involved chose that arrangement because he found the meetings themselves enjoyable or worthwhile.
Everyone has their own way of relating to women.
The best is yet to come!
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It’s Seattle.
If all you’re doing is creating friction, they’re both the same anyway. If conversation feels like a hassle, I think walking away is also an option.
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I’m Flag Maker, a columnist.
Maybe you feel “unsatisfied” because you haven’t gotten the response you were hoping for. You can still go much further. It might be worth sending out more offers.
Also, the reason you feel “unsatisfied” may partly lie within yourself. Immerse yourself more and believe in it more strongly.
You can still go much further!
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
There are plenty of men who don’t visit sex-service establishments, so I don’t think there’s anything strange about it. If you feel it’s not much different from masturbation and can’t see any value in dating through a relationship club, I don’t think there’s any need to force yourself to continue.
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I’m Date◎Yume, a male member.
> Is this approach not very healthy? Am I being too naive about how I relate to women?
I think the way you date and interact with someone depends on what you’re looking for from the woman in front of you.
Sex is only one part of an adult relationship (intimate)—though it is an important one.
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I’m Kamihikoki, a male member.
If you’ve gone through life without needing something, it probably means you’ve experienced it but found it unnecessary.
Everyone has different values.
Some people don’t do it themselves, while others are perfectly satisfied on their own—and I think that’s fine too.
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