Thank you, as always, to everyone who takes the time to answer.
I found out that a female member I had an adult relationship (intimate) with had met another male member earlier that same day and had also had an adult relationship (intimate) with him. She accidentally let it slip herself right after we were together.
Without knowing any of this, I caressed her all over, spent time pleasuring her orally, and enjoyed our adult relationship (intimate). Later, while we were chatting comfortably in the room, I learned that she had also gone on an adult date with another male member immediately before meeting me. I was left with a complicated feeling that’s hard to put into words.
If it were a soapland or a delivery health service, I would naturally have it in the back of my mind that another customer had been there before me. But this was my first time having an experience like this on a dating-club date.
I occasionally hear about male members having several dates in one day, but at Universe, do they simply turn situations where female members of Type C or higher receive several offers in a day into scheduled dates without giving it much thought?
Also, have any of you—including female members—ever found yourselves in a situation like mine? How did you feel at the time?
I doubt this was the case, but if she had engaged in unprotected sex with the male member before me, that would make me feel absolutely terrible.
I’d like to hear everyone’s opinions.
Maezawa from Shacho-shitsu here as well.
Thank you for your question.
That woman must be extremely popular, with offers flooding in, and probably went on dates with two men on the same day because she had no other choice.
Most women don’t really want to go that far, either.
She may have dated both of you while thinking that she might turn one of you down at the first meeting. (Even with Dating Type C, the acceptance rate is only 50%, so it’s perfectly normal to meet two people and turn one down.)
Perhaps, after meeting you, she unexpectedly found that both of you were good men.
Even though she agreed to meet you, the questioner is being far too narrow-minded.
If she simply let it slip by accident, you should have enough composure to say something like:
“I don’t mind, but most men would, so be careful next time.”
You can take as long as the protagonist of *Tokyo University Story* to think it over…but no matter how long you deliberate, with his lightning-fast mind, it would only take 0.1 seconds.
Answer calmly after 0.1 seconds.
That’s what it means to be a gentleman.
> At Universe, do they casually arrange several offers a day for female members who are Dating Type C or higher?
That hardly ever happens.
It would take several circumstances lining up, such as:
- The men happen to request the same date
- The men can’t make any other day
- The woman is receiving a flood of offers
- The woman has very few available dates
- The woman is still willing to make it work
Without those conditions overlapping, it wouldn’t end up being on the same day.
Let me say this again: the woman went out of her way to agree to meet you.
Don’t get hung up on the small stuff.
If something this minor bothers you about her, you’re better off not making an offer—and you shouldn’t invite her out after dinner, either.
You liked her, and she liked you too.
That’s the only part you need to focus on.
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I’m Date◎Yume, a male member.
This kind of thing can certainly happen at a dating club, and I can understand how you feel. If I were actually faced with it, I’d probably feel a little uncomfortable too.
That said, dating clubs only handle the initial arrangements, so they naturally try to set up as many meetings as possible without missing opportunities to make offers to female members.
When something like this happens, you have to accept reality and recognize that she’s probably an appealing woman whom other men also appreciate.
If that bothers you, I think you should simply lower the level of your offers. About one-third of the women haven’t received any offers yet, and if you focus on that group, the chances of something like this happening should drop considerably.
Also, women who haven’t received offers are less likely to take a strong stance, so negotiating with the relationship itself as the priority may increase the chances of receiving steady support. That would benefit both the male and female members, as well as the club.
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
I can understand why it would make you feel uncomfortable. I’ve felt the same way at adult entertainment venues, and I’ve also heard a partner say she’d had sex three days earlier and thought, “So some old guy was with her three days ago.” I imagine women probably have similarly complicated feelings when they perform oral sex.
I’ve even wondered how long ago someone’s last sexual encounter would have to be for people not to feel conflicted about it.
When I ask for multiple settings in one day, I usually arrange for a Type B during the day and a Type C or D in the evening. Come to think of it, last year a woman was pretty angry at a man who had several settings arranged in a single day through Universe Subscription. I think she was angry because she felt she’d been treated carelessly.
Universe Club doesn’t get involved in what happens after the meal, so as long as there’s at least a four-hour gap, I suppose people do arrange multiple settings in one day. And just because someone is Type C doesn’t necessarily mean they’ll have an adult relationship (intimate).
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I’m Paper Airplane, a male member who has had four first meetings in a single day through regular dates.
Of course, the staff don’t tell the women about that—it’s kept confidential. Naturally, that includes the C-type women as well. And when the genders are reversed, handling two or three on the same day is no big deal either…
If I were in the staff’s position, I’d be happy to make those kinds of arrangements and give it my all.
Women like that must be very experienced and quite tired, so it would be good to help them relax and feel cared for.
As an aside, with letter dates, it’s possible to make or receive offers and even finalize a match with 100 people in a single day.
P.S. For a first date through a letter date, I keep the entire day free so I can accommodate the woman’s preferences that day. Perhaps because we already feel comfortable with each other, it usually ends up lasting the whole day.
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I’m Flag Maker, a column writer.
If I like her, I get jealous. But if I don’t, I just think, “So she has other benefactors besides me. That’s good,” and feel relieved.
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