When I first joined, I was fortunate enough to receive several offers, but I haven’t received any since then. I’m currently trying to figure out what I can do to attract new offers.
I get likes on my selfies, but they rarely lead to dates.
I consider having my photos retaken a last resort, so I’d like to know what I could improve while keeping my current photos in order to receive more offers. For example, what parts of a profile do you look at, and what kind of information makes a better impression? I’d really appreciate any advice.
Thank you in advance.
I’m Date◎Yume, a male member.
I agree with what everyone else has said, but if you’re not receiving any offers, how about adding a note in the comments such as: “I’m flexible when it comes to the relationship, and I’d especially like to discuss the costs of dating in detail”?
When it comes to your offer strategy, unless you adopt one that gives you an overwhelming advantage over the unseen competition, you’ll simply end up leaving the club.
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Maezawa from the CEO’s Office here.
Thanks for your question.
I think it’s a good idea to write something in the comments section.
The women are listed in order of when they registered, so your profile gradually gets pushed back to later pages. However, when you write a comment, it gets moved back toward the front. Since the comment appears directly on your profile, many men read it.
With that in mind, updating your comment about once a week can help keep you near the front and make you more noticeable.
That said, if the content never changes, men may think, “She must be desperate,” and stop clicking on your profile. To avoid that, I recommend writing something new in your comment each time.
Selfies require an additional click from the profile to view, so they take one extra step. Because of that, I think men only look at them when they’re already interested in a woman.
There may also be cases where seeing the selfie makes them lose interest in making an offer. Edited photos in particular aren’t a good idea.
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I’m Taro, a male member.
I’d say your private photos are probably the most important thing.
If they’re an existing member, they likely already saw your profile when you first joined and had a reason for not making an offer then. There could be various reasons, but the biggest ones are probably appearance and figure. Since your figure won’t change much in a short time, it might be a good idea to upload photos that give a different impression.
Edited photos tend to get skipped, so use natural-looking ones. Everyone has different preferences, so try swapping in photos with different vibes—elegant, cute, and so on. If you can make a male member think, “Wait, was she always here?” then you’re halfway there.
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I’m Flag Maker, a columnist.
I’m not sure whether this will be helpful, but I do write columns from that perspective, so I wanted to share it just in case.
https://universe-club.jp/column/onanamireport1
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I’m a male member who goes by “Paper Airplane.”
Whenever I go to Starbucks with a girl, she only orders whatever limited-edition new item is available.
She’s never had anything else.
My only slim hope is to take a three-month break and then sign up again…
The new-member period lasts just one week. I’ll never get another chance.
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
I think comments from women are the best way to spark a man’s interest.
That said, it’s worth knowing that some men, like me, are put off by women who seem overly eager to get offers—such as by posting private photos or constantly updating their comments.
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I’m in Seattle.
As for comments from women, don’t literally write “Please send me an offer,” but putting some real effort into your message is what works best. If you write every day, you’ll probably come across as too much, so once a week at most—maybe even less often.
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