Tips Feb 3, 2021 15:26

Have you ever made an offer to a single female member who became overly attached and caused problems? Should I be especially careful with women in their 30s and 40s?

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Meg
🏅 修行の身
光と影
Age: 50s 👩 Female Former Universe member
I’m Meg, a female member. I’m in my 40s and not single, but… I hate parting after our rendezvous so much that I end up crying~ (lol) I must be a papa-katsu girl to avoid. > My lord, By the way, it’s Meg—Meg! Not Mig~ (I’ve been wanting to point that out for ages, lol)
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だて◎ゆめ
👨 Male Universe member
I’m Date◎Yume, one of the male members. I’m definitely not treating you like some old man! I’d love for you to get totally hooked~ (lol) P.S. Ahaha~ (lol) I know, I know! Got it, Meg~ (lol)
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フラグメーカー
フラグメーカー Male Column Send a reverse offer to this responder
🏅 40歳でリアル異世界転生したオッサン l 元金融マン → 現AI界隈
出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
Age: 40s 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Flag Maker, a column writer. I wasn’t entirely blameless either, but there was an incident that left me troubled—or rather, feeling like I had done something I shouldn’t have. She was around 25. I wrote about the details in a column. https://universe-club.jp/column/watasigaonna
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前澤(スタッフ)
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🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe staff
Maezawa from the CEO’s Office here—I’ll answer too. Thanks for your question. It may seem plausible at first glance, but I haven’t really heard of many cases like that. If anything, I think it’s more common for a man to become obsessed with a woman. I remember a police officer once saying something like: “Men often become stalkers, which is a real problem. A man’s social status has nothing to do with it.” That really stuck with me. It made me wonder whether there are actually quite a few cases where someone in a position of authority becomes a stalker.
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カズ
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member. No, I don’t think so. I feel that, especially among women in their 30s and older, there aren’t many who lose all sense of judgment and become deeply invested in someone they’re seeing in an allowance-based relationship. Women around 30 sometimes tell me things like, “I’m starting to think I should get married soon,” or “Men are just naturally unfaithful, so I’ve lost any desire to get married.” But I just let those comments go in one ear and out the other. If anything, I think men are more likely to become deeply invested in their partners.
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