When do you feel sexually attracted to your favorite girl?
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I have a papa (a male supporter) I’ve been seeing for over three years, and we have sex every time we meet once a week. Thankfully, he doesn’t seem bored at all, but I honestly don’t know which of his desire switches I’m pushing each time. When I asked him, he said, “I’ve hardly ever slept with the same girl for more than two years. It’s strange.”
I work out and diet, and I try to maintain my appearance so I don’t let myself go, but is there anything else I should pay attention to…? For those of you who still think, “I want to do it today,” with your favorite girl even after several years, what makes you feel that way?
Yokoyama from the staff here, adding my answer as well.
I’d say it simply comes down to compatibility, don’t you think?
That’s a wonderful thing. I hope you continue to have a great relationship!
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I’m Tetsu, a male member.
I feel sexually attracted from the moment I meet someone. As soon as we get in the car and I hold her hand or kiss her—basically, the moment we’re alone together—the fun begins (lol).
But when we’re eating or casually walking around town, I act completely normal.
I think it probably means you feel you’re physically compatible. Since things are good as they are now, if you continue putting in the same effort, you should be able to maintain a good relationship.
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Maezawa from the CEO’s office here with an answer as well.
Thanks for your question.
If you’re talking about more than 20 years, I can see why you’d wonder what the appeal is. But if it’s been around three years, I feel that’s fairly normal as long as you’re compatible.
> Is there anything else I should be careful about?
If you’re taking care of your physique through things like strength training, I think you should be fine.
Since you seem to enjoy spending time together and like him, I think everything should be okay as long as that continues. That said, I do wonder if he might lose interest if you were to gain weight.
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I’m Paper Airplane, a male member who’s been seeing the same longtime girlfriend every week without ever getting tired of it.
There’s no dissatisfaction, no failures, no excitement—but also no disappointment or pressure.
Maybe that’s why it can continue every week for years, even decades…
The girl I like most at the club is an absolutely perfect match for me in every way—truly exceptional. She’s perfect in every sense. She’s the exact opposite of the “perfect” person mentioned in a recent question. I can’t get enough of how natural everything feels with her.
It’s a level of compatibility you could never reach with a romantic partner like a girlfriend or wife. There may be a certain emptiness because it isn’t romance, but the compatibility more than makes up for it. That’s the real appeal.
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I’m Taro, a male member.
Isn’t it simply a matter of compatibility? Some people just seem to click physically, and when that’s the case, it can be hard to explain even if you’re asked.
As you spend more time together and keep having good intimate experiences, I feel that a conditioned response starts to develop as well. It’s good to build up not only intimacy, but also conversations, shared memories, and an understanding of each other’s character. It may not affect men as much as women, but it does matter to men too. After all, everyone would rather embrace a real person than a doll. The depth of the relationship matters.
You should continue making an effort to maintain your appearance, but if you’ve been together long enough for your looks to noticeably change, the man will probably point out what concerns him. When that happens, it may be quite important not to lose your temper, but to accept it properly and work on improving. Though I suppose it’s different if you’ve been together for more than ten years. This is advice based on my own experience.
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
Hmm, how should I put it? Maybe it’s the fact that we can be completely open about our desires with each other.
It’s hard to casually talk about things like, “Do you masturbate?” or “What kind of play would you like to try?” outside a dating club. The last time I talked this openly was probably back when I was in my early twenties, in the BDSM scene. Come to think of it, BDSM enthusiasts used to introduce themselves with things like, “I’m an M who enjoys ○○ play.”
You rarely come across a beautiful, fun woman who’ll say, “I like having my clit teased this way!” and then, when you try it, furrow her brow, say, “That feels so good,” and squirt—all while taking care of her figure. If a woman like that doesn’t turn you on, who would?
Sorry for giving such a confident answer when I’m still a rookie who’s only been dating her for six months.
P.S. Taro put it perfectly when he said we have great chemistry. I think that’s exactly what it is.
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