There was a question about wanting to keep things from one’s wife, but women doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) also quickly notice when their papa (a male supporter) has other women. Women’s intuition is sharp, isn’t it? If so, wouldn’t a wife living in the same house almost certainly notice too…
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So here’s my question: If your papa has other women, is it better not to show any signs of suspicion at all, or should you show a little jealousy? I’d love to hear everyone’s thoughts on the right way for a woman doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) to behave!
I’m Taro, a male member.
I’d been answering the newest questions first, so I only noticed this here—but there really are a series of similar questions, aren’t there? What is this, a minor controversy?
As for the question: I completely agree with Flag Maker. Let’s respond in a way that makes the other person happy. You can tell by women’s intuition, right?
That’s all.
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Maezawa from the CEO’s Office here—I’ll answer as well.
Thanks for your question.
> Is it better not to show any suspicion at all, or should I show a little jealousy?
If they’re hiding something, I think it’s best to pretend you haven’t noticed. If not, I think it’s fine to show a little jealousy.
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I’m Hikoki, a male member.
In your case, I think either approach would be fine.
Are you asking about how a papa-katsu girl should behave?
Personally, I don’t talk about other women with my absolute favorites or favorites, and they never bring up that kind of topic either. As mentioned in the previous question, women who don’t have many papas would probably prefer you to invest that time and attention in them rather than in other women.
With the other girls I’m seeing on an ongoing basis, both they and I sometimes talk about other people, or listen to each other vent and unwind.
And since this is a club, I don’t understand the idea of acting suspicious or getting jealous. Would women even feel that way? Men, perhaps, but women? I get the impression that women are more concerned with whether the man feels he’s getting enough satisfaction for the allowance, since that affects whether the arrangement continues.
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I’m Flag Maker, a column writer.
The right way for a woman in papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) to behave is to respond in ways that will make the other person happy.
If a man would enjoy being the object of your jealousy, act jealous.
If a man would find jealousy bothersome, don’t act jealous.
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
I tell the women I’m seeing about my other dating partners, so there’s really nothing for them to “notice.” I find suspicion and jealousy tiresome, so I’m completely open about it. In my opinion, the right way for a woman in papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) to behave is to be open about her dating situation.
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