How long can you keep working through a dating club?
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I’m having a hard time deciding whether to go to an interview with Universe Club. A major reason is that my parents are strongly opposed to dating clubs.
I’m a virgin.
If it weren’t for COVID, I had also been considering working at a cabaret club in Kabukicho, but my father is against that as well. He says things like, “What are you going to do in the future?” and “It’s not a job you can do forever.”
My father wants me to pursue my dream of working in entertainment.
But honestly, my family doesn’t have much money. Our financial situation and values are different from those of an ordinary household.
Should I avoid thinking of a dating club as a job?
I mean, should I see it as something to do while pursuing something else?
I’m Taro, a male member.
First, bring your father here. To your dad: What the hell are you talking about with your daughter?
To answer your question, if you want to make money quickly, I think you’d be better off working in adult entertainment or the nightlife business.
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
I wasn’t sure how to answer, so I’ll jump off Mac’s response.
You do occasionally come across virgin hostesses—about as often as virgins at dating clubs. Most of them end up being “eaten” within a month by a customer who likes virgins or someone else in the same line of work.
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Maezawa from the President’s Office will answer this one as well.
Thank you for your question.
A dating club isn’t a job. Universe doesn’t pay you a salary, after all.
That said, I think there are people doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) who receive an allowance every month that’s comparable to—or even higher than—what they’d earn from a regular job. In that sense, it may function like a job for some people, but even so, I don’t think many people actually call it a job.
I also think it’s fairly common for parents to be against it.
> My father wants me to pursue my dream of working in entertainment.
Listening to what your father says is one possible way to live your life. I’m sure there are also people who choose to keep working toward their goals even without financial support.
On the other hand, some people continue their activities without telling their parents.
I think you should consider this carefully in a way that won’t leave you with regrets.
If you’re looking for a job in the first place, why not find employment at an ordinary company instead of joining a dating club or working at a hostess club?
It’s your life, so think it through carefully and choose the path you won’t regret.
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To the questioner’s father: you should be the one working.
A sugar-dating club isn’t something you join because your parents tell you to. If you’re an adult, make your own decisions.
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I’m a male member, Paper Airplane.
> Is it better not to think of a dating club as a job?
I don’t think there’s anything wrong with joining a club for any reason. If you need to make money, it’s perfectly understandable to consider joining because you see it as work—or perhaps even better than a regular job—as a side gig. It’s also quite common to consider or do this alongside working at a hostess club or similar venue.
Given your background, I think a club could certainly be one option for you. You may also meet men who genuinely want to support you.
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I’m Date◎Yume, a male member.
> Is it better not to think of a dating club as a job?
I don’t think you should view it that way.
Personally, I don’t consider activities through a dating club to be work…
Rather, I think it’s better to see it as receiving financial support from someone so you can achieve what you truly want to do—such as pursuing your dreams.
If you’re thinking about joining a dating club, I recommend telling the interviewer that this is what you’re looking for and seeking a dating partner (supporter).
Most women who participate in dating clubs need financial support, so there’s no need to worry.
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