Tips Feb 2, 2021 12:43

I believe a good relationship between a man and a woman can be bought with money.

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It seems that many male members see several women at the same time, but if you focused on supporting just one woman with the amount you would otherwise spend on several, wouldn’t she grow fond of you, leading to a deeper relationship and a lasting bond? She might even repay your kindness in an unexpected way someday… Don’t you think? Or do you still want to experience a variety of women? Thank you.
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I’m Mei Uehara from the Tokyo branch. > If you invest in just one girl the amount you would otherwise spend on several, she’ll become attached to you, you’ll develop a deeper relationship, and you’ll stay close forever. → I wonder if that’s really the case… Whether she’ll become attached to you or whether you’ll remain close depends a lot on your chemistry and personalities, I think. Even with a generous allowance, she’ll probably get used to it eventually. There are also cases where a woman says, “You’re the only one,” while actually dating several men. You might be waiting for her to repay your kindness like the crane in the folktale… but who knows.
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カズ
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member. People get used to things. If you give someone a lot, they may be grateful at first, but after a few months, it becomes normal to her. At the same time, her sense of money gets distorted. You can buy someone’s feelings with money, but only temporarily. I’ve experienced this both as the person receiving money and as the person giving it, and I’ve seen many similar examples around me. Based on those experiences, if you focus on one woman and give her a lot, all you’re left with is feelings from someone whose sense of money has been distorted—feelings that aren’t worth the allowance you’re paying. I think the idea that “you can buy a good relationship between a man and a woman with money” is only partly true. More accurately, “you can sometimes buy someone’s feelings with money, but only temporarily.” So, if you focus on one woman and give her a lot, she may become attached to you and you may develop a deeper relationship for a while, but I don’t think you’ll be able to stay close forever. Feelings bought with money are temporary, but I don’t think feelings nurtured through a relationship are.
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I’m Taro, a male member. If you mean building a good relationship as a valued regular, then in a sense, you could say it can be bought with money. Since it’s not especially difficult, I think it’s a valid option if that alone satisfies you. However, from the woman’s perspective, you need to rank among her top clients. Even if you feel you’re spending a lot, if most of her other supporters are generous (well-paying) papas who spend more than twice as much, things probably won’t turn out the way you hope. You need to assess the situation before deciding how much to invest. Since this involves another person, I don’t think anyone who acts solely from their own perspective can succeed, no matter what form it takes.
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Age: Private 👨 Male Universe staff
Maezawa from the CEO’s office here—I’ll answer as well. Thanks for your question. That’s a pretty difficult one. How could we prove that “a good relationship between a man and a woman can be bought with money”? If anyone here is good at math, I’d love to know whether it can actually be proven. If we assume it’s true, then I suppose that’s basically how it is. That said, I feel a little uncomfortable with the idea that “a good relationship between a man and a woman can be bought with money.” In reality, I think things beyond money—such as the human connection between two people—are also important factors.
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Meg
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Age: 50s 👩 Female Former Universe member
I’m Meg, a female member. I love my papa (a male supporter) very much, and he tells me, “Please be mine alone, and stay with me for many years to come.” He says such incredibly kind and humbling things to me, and I’m truly grateful. I feel that I’d like to keep repaying his kindness for as long as I can. But… Once my true identity is discovered, the crane will have to fly away. Please, please don’t make any unnecessary inquiries.
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スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
I’m in Seattle. I financially support several women. To varying degrees, they all give something back in return.
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バジル
Age: 60s 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Basil, a male member. I can’t say I’ve never wondered about that, but since women may also have—or seek—multiple men, I think the chances of receiving a “Gratitude of the Crane” in return are pretty slim. Instead, I find myself prioritizing enjoying the present with different women.
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