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Jan 31, 2021 04:20
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お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
I’ll answer this as Maezawa from the president’s office.
Thank you for your question.
I think it also depends on how well the woman presents herself.
When she’s good at it, some men get fired up by the idea that there are other men, thinking, “I’ll be the one who comes out on top.”
But if she isn’t that type, they may instead feel uncomfortable knowing there are other men.
With a dating club, men understand that she may be seeing other men. However, possessive men may want her all to themselves, and even men who don’t go that far may prefer not to hear much about the other men.
So I think you should consider your own persona and decide how to handle it.
迷わない70代
Male
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パパ活歴11年目、回答者歴8年目の関西在住者。パパ活終活中（笑）
Age: 70 or older
👨 Male
Former Universe member
I’m in my sixties and still trying to find my way.
My partner has always told me, “Become the kind of man that other women turn around to look at when we’re walking together!”—and that’s how I’ve ended up here… (^◇^;)
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スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m in Seattle.
I was a virgin until I was 24, and I thought I’d die an introverted nerd without ever changing.
But I still managed to get married once, and now I’m here. Your twenties are a long time in the course of a life.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
Given the nature of this kind of relationship, I think it’s only natural for an attractive woman to have other men in her life. Experience helps a person grow, so in many cases, it can make her even more appealing.
The only exception would be if she were seeing a man who, in my eyes, was unbelievably boring. I wouldn’t want to be lumped in with a guy I find boring, so in that situation, I’d end things with her.
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m だて◎ゆめ, a male member.
> Is there a difference between situations where it adds to someone’s appeal and those where it doesn’t?
Since she’s a cute girl, you’d naturally think, “Well, of course it does,” wouldn’t you…?
Also, if you lack confidence and worry that she might turn down an arrangement with you, your anxiety may grow.
Life is always a battle against invisible enemies. Have confidence in yourself, stick to your convictions, and take things at your own pace.
If someone turns you down, there are plenty of women waiting to meet someone. As long as you have some leeway in your heart and wallet, there’s no need to worry too much（笑).