I’m the one who recently asked for advice because my beloved papa (a male supporter) had other girls too.
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After taking everyone’s opinions into account and telling him how I felt, we’ve become even closer than before (笑). It’s all thanks to you.
Although papa looked fed up with my suspicions that he was cheating, he apparently fell for me all over again, saying, “You can be pretty cute sometimes.” It feels like a blessing in disguise. Until now, I’d never once suspected him of anything like that, so he said it was refreshing in both a good and bad way.
While we talked for hours, I realized once again that papa sees me as his main partner—someone extremely stable, even if not quite on the level of a wife.
He can let his guard down with me and wants to spend a long time together. We can joke around with each other, and he feels comfortable in our familiar relationship. Sometimes he pursues new women and even has sex with them in secret to test his appeal as a man, but in the end, he can’t bring himself to abandon his main partner.
So I realized that I shouldn’t become complacent, but simply remain confident and unshaken. The appearance of a new woman surprised me, but since he’s only doing it to indulge his desire to be popular with women, I’m no longer afraid.
I guess that’s just the male instinct. I also have a desire to be loved by many men, so I can kind of understand how he feels.
And apparently, I’m the kind of person who can love both my boyfriend and my papa. So from now on, I plan to keep nurturing our messy, passionate love while we continue throwing our twisted affection at each other—what goes around comes around.
I’m looking forward to seeing how this relationship as lovers changes over time. And even if this relationship ended today, I genuinely feel that we’ve shared such intense, fulfilling moments that I wouldn’t regret it.
Are there any women like that among everyone here? What are the characteristics of women who stay in long-term relationships? Is being someone they can truly let their guard down with especially important?
I’ll keep doing my best, too.
I’m Taro, a male member.
I’m glad things worked out for you!
It’s wonderful that you’ve realized you’re spending such meaningful time together that you wouldn’t regret it even if the relationship ended today.
It’s important to feel comfortable with each other, but having a little drama now and then might help you recognize how you really feel about the other person. Though I’m sure you already know that.
Anyway, I’m happy for you. Take care and good luck.
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I’m だて◎ゆめ, a male member.
> From here on, I think we’ll continue nurturing this messy love while hurling our twisted feelings at each other—after all, what goes around comes around.
I love that expression（笑）
That’s more or less how the world works!
> I’m looking forward to seeing how this affair develops.
I’m really looking forward to it too.
Enjoy your time together while keeping in mind how you’d like this mutually beneficial relationship to end.
Personally, I feel that a woman has to be straightforward for a long-term relationship to last.
Being able to let your guard down—in other words, building a relationship based on mutual trust—is extremely important.
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I’m in Seattle.
People you can joke around with tend to make things fun and last longer. I’ve been seeing two supporters for seven and nine years. We’re practically friends now, but we’re still going strong.
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I’ll answer as Maezawa from the CEO’s office as well.
> Even though he looked fed up, he seemed to fall for me all over again, thinking, “She does have a cute side.”
He probably thought I was a woman who didn’t get jealous, only to realize that I actually did. So from now on, he’d better be more careful not to let me find out.
That’s probably what happened, so I feel like we’ve become slightly less close than before.
> So I don’t let it go to my head.
There’s always a chance that the relationship may end someday, so I think it’s important not to become complacent.
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I’m Paper Airplane, a male member who has been married several times—and, for some reason, I’m still in touch with those women.
Some of these relationships have lasted for many, many years—even decades. They’ve become unusually close and intense, to the point where we’ve even gotten divorced.
> I can let my guard down around her, and I want to spend a long time together. We can joke around with each other, and being in such a familiar, comfortable relationship feels good.
So perhaps it’s more affection and attachment than love or romance…
I’m also often told things like that by people I’ve just met, even on the very first day. We often end up spending the entire day together on our first date, and somehow those relationships seem to continue without end…
And right now, the roads, restaurants, shops, and entertainment spots are all practically empty, making this a uniquely stress-free period that probably won’t come around again.
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