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Maezawa from the CEO’s Office here. Thanks for your question. I’d say it comes down to chemistry. Even if it’s hard to put your finger on exactly what it is, there are people you simply find yourself wanting to see again.

Hello, I’m Kazu, a male member. I’m attracted to women who respond genuinely and give me a real sense of connection. By “respond,” I don’t mean moaning a lot. I’m turned off by escorts who cry out even when I’m barely touching them—or when it clearly doesn’t feel that good. I prefer a woman who responds with the same intensity when I put my heart and soul into pleasing her, someone who can truly meet me halfway. That’s what makes me feel that sex with her was worthwhile. On top of that, if she treats me well too, I’ll want to see her again. She doesn’t have to bring me to climax, but if she’s good at oral sex or feels especially good during penetration, I’ll want another date. If she does bring me to climax, I’ll definitely want to see her again. Even that alone wouldn’t make me want to meet her over and over forever. I’d eventually get bored. It doesn’t have to happen every time, but I don’t get tired of a woman who gradually reveals or develops new sides of herself the longer we see each other. For example, if she knows I like women in lingerie, she might deliberately put it back on after showering so I can see her in it, or wear lingerie she knows I like, or learn how to bring me to climax. Once a woman learns exactly how to make me climax, I find it hard to let her go. I also like women who are happy to go along with more unconventional or kinky play. The only thing I can think of that really gets to me is when a woman starts actively seeking out her own pleasure. For example, when she starts touching her clitoris while I’m inside her, finds the angle and rhythm that feel best to her while she’s on top, or, once I’m erect, straddles me and begins guiding me inside herself.

I’m Paper Airplane, a male member. Even if the chemistry is good, you may start to get bored after six months. But there are connections where you never get bored, even after six months, and feel comfortable spending hours together. Sometimes the chemistry is so good that you can’t imagine life without her. Everyone looks for something different in a relationship. For me, it’s a girl I can spend a long time with without ever running out of things to talk about—someone who doesn’t worry about the time or allowance. That means she isn’t someone who’s continuing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan). Physically, too, I prefer a natural, compatible woman. So technique and all that isn’t necessary. With girls who are used to clubs, I offer the allowance upfront, but because the relationship feels more like a seasoned adult relationship (intimate), no matter how compatible we are, they only become favorites to a certain extent. In the end, the natural relationships where, on the first date or a few dates in, we hit it off, the mood builds, we respond to each other, and things become so intense that we can’t hold back even before the shower always turn into relationships I’m extremely fond of and never get tired of. Whether the allowance is given first or afterward seems to make a difference in how the relationship develops. Some women treat the allowance as foreplay, while for others, the date itself becomes the foreplay. That difference seems to matter. P.S. Flag Maker and Mac, Huh? I was so busy that I didn’t have time to write a reply, and it looks like you edited it for me... I meant to write it modestly, but I’m sorry it ended up looking like a complete mess... I’m so happy these days that I’m genuinely glad whatever you write, so it’s all good. Lately, the dates have been fulfilling and fun too... When I use facial-recognition passes to go out with her ID, registered under a family setting as her husband, there’s now only a five-minute wait and we get through smoothly.

I’m Flag Maker, a column writer. Sorry if this is a bit off-topic, but sex eventually gets boring. The thing that touched me most was when I was trying to figure out whether I had an allergy or hay fever. He gave me about ten different kinds of allergy medicine, with several pills of each sorted into separate Ziploc bags. He had carefully labeled them things like, “Take one in the morning” and “Take one in the morning and one at night,” and said, “I figured some might work better for you than others, so give them a try.” Things like that really get to me. P.S. Understood. m(_ _)m

I’m Tetsu, a male member. Put simply, it comes down to having good chemistry. You might wonder what I mean by “chemistry,” but in my case, it feels like everything just falls into place the moment we get intimate. Aside from chemistry, it’s also refreshing that things are different every time. I think it helps keep things from getting boring when both people share what they’d like to try so they can enjoy themselves together.

I’m Date◎Yume, a male member. > What kind of woman doesn’t get bored even after having sex many times? In my case, I doubt anyone like that exists. The act itself is more or less the same for everyone, after all（笑） I think it’s more fun in bed when you care about your partner while playfully teasing and touching each other, or throwing in a few feints（笑）