Do men specifically compliment women on their figures? Have any women here ever been complimented on theirs?
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I went in for a reshoot the other day, and because I have such an average figure, a staff member asked me, “Is there anything you particularly like about your body?” I was at a complete loss.
They kindly tried to help by asking if there was anything men had complimented me on, but when I replied, “Not at all (crying),” they looked surprised…
Thinking about it myself, I suppose I’m somewhat slim, but that’s about it. I’m not particularly tall, nor do I have a large chest…
The men who have made offers to meet me have complimented my personality, facial features, and overall vibe, but I don’t remember any of them mentioning my figure.
I felt bad because the staff seemed to be struggling with giving me pose directions.
I’m Taro, a male member.
There are definitely things to like about shorter women. Unlike with taller women, I enjoy how their features seem to fit more compactly within my field of vision. In that sense, I’m more accepting even when a shorter woman is on the curvier side. And because of the height difference, it’s cute when she hugs me and ends up looking straight up at me.
I also like women with smaller breasts. Even if they modestly say, “A guy who works out has more of a chest than I do,” their body line is still unmistakably feminine, and I feel that its beauty stands out even more when there isn’t much there. During intimate moments, it can be enticing because, in a way, it feels like they’re experiencing everything from their core rather than being focused on their breasts.
There are also aspects of a woman’s figure that don’t show up in numbers. The shape around the collarbones often gets mentioned, but there are plenty of others too—the lower ribs, the protrusion of the hip bones, the line from the back down to the waist, and so on. It’s not just physical features, either. Some women have lovely posture, movements, or facial expressions. Personality matters too, of course.
I’m sure there’s something appealing about you as well. First, try to get the man you’re seeing to tell you what it is. Once he seems to like you to a certain extent, you could say something like, “Actually, there’s something I’m insecure about…” and bring it up hesitantly, then ask what he thinks. I’m sure he’ll openly reveal what it was about you that made him feel so aroused.
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Maezawa from the President’s Office here.
Thank you for your question.
I wonder if the staff member was new? I’m sorry you had to go through that… Our apologies for the staff’s poor photography skills. We’ll work harder on our in-house training.
Since you had to be photographed again, and we knew how many offers you’d received so far, we may have thought, “A woman who’s received this many offers must be getting showered with compliments from men,” and ended up asking:
“Have any men complimented you on anything?”
But men aren’t particularly good at complimenting women. Even if you haven’t been complimented, if you have someone who continues to see you, that means they like you, so I don’t think you need to worry too much.
Of course, if it’s still bothering you, I do think it might help to get some exercise.
The reason you had such a hard time with the poses is probably because you were being instructed to do specific poses. Making someone do poses they aren’t familiar with is difficult enough as it is.
You were probably put into some very uncomfortable positions, too, so I imagine it’s challenging for anyone without modeling experience.
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Some people compliment my overall figure, while others praise specific features. When someone compliments a particular part, I’ll sometimes consciously choose positions during an adult relationship (intimate) that make it easier to see.
There’s absolutely no need for you to feel discouraged. Your body can change dramatically with effort. If you really commit to it, I think you could look completely different in two or three months.
Work on the features you want people to compliment.
I forgot to include my name—
Marika.
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I’m in Seattle.
I’ve been seeing my “oil drum” guy for seven years now.
I’ll compliment you, of course. Anyone who passes the interview here has to have something worth complimenting—I genuinely mean it, not just flattery.
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I’m Tetsu, a male member.
When I was younger, I felt embarrassed praising women, so I kept it to myself. These days, I say it out loud—for example, “Your breasts are beautifully shaped,” or “Your butt looks great, all perky and toned.”
It seems women don’t always notice unless you’re specific, and they feel good when you point out exactly what you like.
When I compliment a woman’s butt, she becomes more conscious of it, and some women enjoy it even more when I caress it while they’re in that state. Since there’s nothing to lose by saying these things, I’ve started being more proactive about giving verbal compliments.
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I’m だて◎ゆめ, a male member.
If she has a well-proportioned figure overall, I’ll compliment her as a whole and say, “You look great!”
But I guess I might not compliment specific parts individually...
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
I don’t give specific compliments. You never know where a woman’s insecurities might lie, so I don’t take the risk.
If a woman had clearly defined abs, I’d probably compliment her on them. You have to train to get abs like that, so they’re unlikely to be a source of insecurity.
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