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I’m close enough with someone that I’m torn between calling them by their name with “-san” or giving them a nickname. Which would make you happier????

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🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
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Maezawa from the CEO’s office here—I’ll answer too. Thanks for your question. I always assumed that once you start getting closer, it’s standard for the woman to ask, “What should I call you?” (lol) It probably varies from person to person, so I think it’s best to ask them directly.
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🏅 40歳でリアル異世界転生したオッサン l 元金融マン → 現AI界隈
出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
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I’m a column writer and a flag maker. If my name were Takashi, my nickname would be “Taa.” If it were Masashi, it would be “Maa.” If it were Hisashi, it would be “Hii.” If it were Kiyoshi, it would be “Kii.” I’d like to be called by a nickname along these lines.
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I’m Taro, a male member. I definitely prefer nicknames! Since the girls don’t share information with one another, I’ve been called all sorts of nicknames over the years. One girl even called me “P-chan.” For the record, there isn’t a single trace of a “P” in either my first or last name. Thanks for the fun question.
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I’m Kazu, a male member. I prefer to be called “Kazu-san.” I’m not comfortable with women who have no sense of personal boundaries and keep asking what nickname I go by—or trying to give me one—even after I’ve said I don’t like it. I don’t go on a second date with them.
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I’m a male member, Paper Airplane. On the first day, you’d ask what they’d like to be called, right? And using their name with “-san” or calling them by a nickname is perfectly normal too…
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