In a previous question, a staff member said that five or more offers was a good benchmark for receiving lots of offers.

I’m Taro, a male member. The person asking this question clearly has no understanding of the concept of probability. If the chance of meeting a great papa (a male supporter) is 25%, then thinking you’ll meet one after meeting four papas is the “expected value.” It simply means you can expect it—it’s no guarantee that it will actually happen. So, do you know the probability of meeting a great papa after meeting four? The answer is 68%. You just subtract the probability of meeting four papas who aren’t great in a row—0.75 to the fourth power—from 1. Surprisingly low, right? That’s all “expectation” really amounts to. Incidentally, if you meet eight people, the probability rises to 90%. At that point, you’re basically “eight or nine times out of ten” likely to meet a good papa. For now, try to work toward getting that many offers. Come to think of it, I remember that during first meetings, girls sometimes look at me with an intensely earnest expression when they feel like we really click. Ah, so that’s what it was. I probably make the same face when I pull something good from a gacha...

I’m Flag Maker, a column writer. Sorry for the late reply m(_ _)m I can’t say for sure without knowing your profile, but it’s extremely difficult to aim for the right balance. To put it simply and bluntly, making yourself seem too cheap or overly eager may increase the number of offers, but it also raises the risk of being mistreated. If you don’t want to reduce your offers but do want to minimize the risks, you need to judge the other person as a human being and confirm the allowance amount before moving on to an adult relationship (intimate). As a strategy, ask about the allowance amount first. Then, wait until the next meeting or later before moving on to an adult relationship. In other words, observe how the other person reacts when you say you won’t move forward with an adult relationship that day. People to avoid will often reveal their true colors at that point. Watch them carefully. That said, when explaining why you won’t move forward with an adult relationship that day, give a reason that won’t hurt their feelings, while also leaving them with a little hope that things may be okay next time. If you turn them down too harshly, even a genuinely nice person would naturally feel discouraged. Once you get past that stage, you can observe how they communicate before the next date. You should be able to get some sense of whether they’re treating you well from things like choosing a restaurant and coordinating schedules. Use that opportunity to assess them further. This may help reduce the number of unpleasant incidents, at least somewhat. Some male members may criticize this answer, but that’s not my intention. In fact, I’m answering with the feeling that I may be hurting my own business here, haha. If you’d like to discuss your situation in detail, please contact me below. I’ll be accepting consultations until mid-February. 【How to Apply for the “相談室”】 ・Please send an email to the address below with the following information, ①–⑤: [　onayami@aol.com　] ① Your Universe Club member number and club name ② The number of offers you have received so far ③ A brief overview of your concern ④ Your preferred consultation method (online or in person) ⑤ Whether you would like a tarot reading

I’m だて◎ゆめ, a male member. > As for the details of those awful men: they were all older men who were people to avoid—refusing to give me an allowance, insisting on going bare, calling me an amateur prostitute, hitting, biting, and choking me, or wanting to recreate porn scenes. Haha. Haha（笑） From the content of your question, I was wondering if your experience might have been unusually unlucky. Since it’s all a matter of probability, some people may meet someone suitable right away, while others may have to wait quite a while. I’m not lucky with draws either, so I haven’t managed to become rich. Since this is something where a man makes an offer before you ever meet, I wonder if it’s possible that the men who happened to choose someone with your looks and overall vibe just turned out to be those kinds of people. If you find yourself thinking, “That can’t possibly be happening!” it might be worth trying a different approach when you have your photos retaken or updated. Perhaps next time, you’ll meet the kind of man you’re looking for（笑）

Maezawa from the President’s Office will answer as well. Thank you for your question. I’m going to be rather blunt here, but regarding: > “I don’t like it unless it’s without protection.” You may be misunderstanding something, so I’ll say this deliberately: if you don’t like it unless it’s without protection, then that’s fine as it is. You don’t need to force yourself. I think it’s perfectly okay to say no to things you dislike, so you won’t regret it later. That said, you should keep in mind that wealthy people tend to be quite self-centered. Once you understand that, you might start thinking, “Maybe if I agree, the allowance could go up to 100,000 yen?” Or perhaps, “Maybe he’ll help me out in other ways, too.” However, if you simply agree, you’ll probably just receive the same allowance as before. So I think you should consider how to negotiate things in your favor. The first thing that comes to mind is saying something like, “I normally wouldn’t, but I feel safe with you, so I’ll make an exception,” to make him feel special. In the end, once a man takes a liking to a woman, he’ll want to do something for her. You need to aim for that and calculate your approach, while pretending that you’re not calculating anything. I think that’s also necessary. > “He didn’t want to give me an allowance and called me an amateur prostitute.” You were just unlucky. Men like this have a different agenda, so I wish they would leave the club. > “Hitting, biting, and choking me.” I think you should report this to the club. If you didn’t agree to it, I believe it would constitute assault. > “He wants to recreate scenes from adult videos.” In this case, I think the man would be happy if you acted along and pretended to enjoy it together… > “I’d like to know why I can’t meet a normal papa.” I’d like to know why myself, so would you mind telling me your club name or something similar? If you contact me through this inquiry form, your message will reach Maezawa, and I can also look into your profile: https://universe-club.jp/help/contact/

I’m Kazu, a male member. I think it probably comes down to probability. Even if you roll a die six times, there’s no guarantee you’ll get a six once. Another possibility that came to mind is choosing Type B. Come to think of it, I feel like I’ve heard more stories about meeting strange people from Type B women. That’s just the tendency I’ve noticed, so I apologize if I’m mistaken. The traits mentioned by the questioner seem to occur more often in adult relationships (intimate), and it sounds as though these encounters are progressing to adult relationships (intimate) with fairly high probability. Could you be choosing the wrong dating type? That said, I hear that people who “want to reenact porn” often do things like finger aggressively, forcibly pull aside and hurt a woman’s underwear, or lick her through her panties, regardless of dating type. Maybe it’s better to give up on avoiding them altogether. Mac said: > “When I changed from B to C, the quality of the men dropped dramatically.” I think the opposite can happen too. This may be prejudiced, but I feel that many men who make offers to Type B women have idealized fantasies about women. Basically, they want to have sex with that particular woman, but don’t want a woman who sleeps with other men, right? Of course, I’m not saying every man who approaches Type B women is like that. Because they’re such dreamy older guys, once they get too invested, they probably start calling female members “amateur escorts,” or think, “I’m looking for a miraculous encounter with a woman who will give her body only to me, so maybe giving her an allowance would make the miracle disappear.” Even among hostesses, only a small number are able to make men expect sex and keep stringing them along effectively. That takes a special talent and technique. Since many people register as Type B in hopes of keeping men interested without having sex, even though they lack that talent or skill, I suspect men who mainly make offers to Type B women become embittered. They get angry and accuse women of secretly being Type A, complain to the staff, or obsessively post in anonymous question boxes. I know there are many women who choose Type B as a way to test the waters because they find it difficult to turn down adult relationships (intimate). I feel those women may be suffering because of dreamy older men, as well as women who choose B because they want to stick to tea or meals only while still winning the man’s favor. What people find unpleasant varies from woman to woman. Some may think Type C is lower quality than Type B, while others may feel the opposite. Perhaps that’s all there is to it.

I’m Kamihikōki, a male member who feels that all the women I meet are wonderful. I’m sure you have many wonderful qualities as well, and the man you’re seeing may have his own good side too. Hopefully, you can bring out the best in each other.