You once said that female genital cosmetic surgery was a money-making business that preys on women’s insecurities, but in reality, most women have never seen anyone else’s and probably don’t know how their own compares.

I’m Kazu, a male member. Just as men rarely get the chance to take a close look at another man’s penis, I don’t think women often get the chance to closely examine another woman’s either. Still, I’ve heard from quite a few women—both through dating clubs and outside them—that they’re concerned about one side of their labia sticking out more than the other. Apparently, there are quite a few women who have female friends they can talk to about that kind of risqué topic, even if they don’t actually show each other anything. It seems close female friends exchange some surprisingly graphic information, which I find interesting. The most I’ve ever discussed about my own genitals with other men was, at most, whether we were uncircumcised or only partially circumcised when we were younger. Come to think of it, not long ago, one of my partners asked what being uncircumcised actually meant, how men specifically stimulate themselves when masturbating, and which parts of the penis feel good when stimulated and how. She closely examined me in practice, and I almost discovered a new kink（笑） As for the shape of women’s genitals, I think they look nice when they’re well-shaped or pink, but that’s about it. If a beautiful woman has a more unusual shape or darker coloring, the contrast can be a turn-on; if they’re nicely shaped and pink, I think she’s beautiful both above and below. In other words, I have positive impressions either way. Basically, I don’t really care what they look like—as long as she gets wet and feels tight, that’s good enough. Earlier I mentioned that the only thing men ever really discussed among themselves regarding their penises was circumcision. I think, for men, the foreskin is probably the equivalent of a woman’s labia. I might remember for about a year after breaking up that a former girlfriend had a beautiful vagina, but after that, I forget. As Seattle-san says, smell is the most important thing. I’m mildly germ-conscious, so a strong-smelling vagina makes me think of bacteria and puts me off physical contact. The type of smell is different, but when there’s an odor, I also start worrying about STIs. So I don’t meet women with that kind of smell a second time. Women might look at a penis and think it’s attractive or unusually shaped, but I think that’s all it is. Of course, there may occasionally be women who care specifically about the shape of a penis. Isn’t it basically the same thing? As an aside, I don’t really care about the shape of women’s genitals, but when it comes to a trans woman’s penis, I want it to be beautiful. When I’m seeing a trans woman abroad, I seriously check photos of her penis and choose based on its size, color, and shape. One more aside. As I wrote in the previous question, “The first vagina I ever saw belonged to Rui Sakuragi,” I first saw one when a friend lent me an adult video of Rui Sakuragi that he had secretly taken from his father’s collection. I watched it at home when I was in middle or high school. Rui Sakuragi’s vagina looked quite unusual, so I remember being shocked and thinking that was what women’s genitals looked like. Maybe seeing such an unusual one first is why I stopped caring much about appearance.

I’m Date◎Yume, a male member. That’s a great question. Actually, the respondent’s answer based on the question is even better than the question itself! Sorry, that wasn’t really an answer.

I’m Maezawa from the CEO’s office, and I’ll answer as well. Thank you for your question. > In reality, most women have never seen anyone else’s, so I don’t think they know whether their own is normal or not. That’s why, when women don’t know whether their own is shaped normally, they may start wondering if perhaps it looks strange and develop a complex about it. So I don’t think whether a woman feels self-conscious about it has much to do with what men think. That said, I’m not sure how the first two lines relate to everything that follows, or why they were included in the first place. Were you just looking for an excuse to engage with Mac-san? You’re popular, aren’t you? (笑)

I’m in Seattle. I actually like it when someone has a lot of hair, and I don’t mind if it’s very dark either. There was one person whose left labia was longer than the right, but that didn’t bother me either. Taking care of odor is more important. Sometimes I feel like using a disposable douche.

I’m Paper Airplane, a male member. > What matters is being able to read the other person’s judgment of you 0.1 seconds after meeting them, and recognize your path to success. When it comes to men and women, I really think it all comes down to this. Even if 99% of people pay no attention to you, it’s enough if you can attract that one person who’s right for you.

I’m Taro, one of the night-shift respondents. This may have been a question for Mac, but since it says “any respondent,” and it’s nighttime, I’ll answer. There are women whose private parts are beautiful—some have an elegant presence, while others are simply adorable. On the other hand, some may look demure but be quite wild down there. Still, by the time you’re at the stage of seeing that, you’ve usually already developed strong feelings for her, so the conclusion doesn’t really change. There may be a functional aspect to it, but ultimately, whether things work also depends on how she feels. In the end, I think it comes down to compatibility in the broadest sense. Apparently, people decide within 0.1 seconds of meeting someone of the opposite sex whether they’re their type. That applies to you, and to the other person as well. So from a man’s perspective, I don’t think there’s any technique that can guarantee you’ll win over a desirable woman. What matters is being able to read how she judges you 0.1 seconds after meeting you, and being able to identify your path to success. If you’re already a no-go for her, nothing you do will work. Conversely, even if she’s receptive, that doesn’t mean everything will automatically go smoothly. It’s important to create a flow that leads to a smooth landing. That’s where technique may play a role. When a woman wants to be popular with men, she may want to improve every aspect of herself, and that might include the shape of her private parts. But unless she’s someone who shows that within 0.1 seconds of meeting you, it’s practically meaningless. So cosmetic surgery down there isn’t worth it. Invest in something else instead.