I’m so crazy about the papa (a male supporter) I’ve been seeing for about a year.

I’m Maezawa from the CEO’s office, and I’ll answer this one too. Thanks for your question. How about inviting him like this? “If I end the day without having sex with you, ○○, I get so frustrated and worked up. Would you have sex with me tomorrow? You don’t have to give me an allowance.” However, some men may lose interest if you say you don’t need an allowance, so this probably won’t work with that type of man.

I’m Fulleren, a male member! I’m jealous of your papa (a male supporter), questioner. I’d start by telling him exactly that. That said, there’s a difference in how these two come across: “I’m crazy about my papa. I love him so much, but I don’t feel like asking him to make me his girlfriend or to stop seeing anyone but me.” versus: “Even though I don’t feel like asking him to make me his girlfriend or to stop seeing anyone but me, I’m crazy about my papa.” So read your papa’s stance carefully. Also, is this your first chance to stay overnight? If so, maybe get up early and try a little morning mouth attack. If he enjoys it, you can officially unlock your seductress mode (lol).

I’m Taro, a male member. First, I think you should simply tell him, “I’m so crazy about you, Papa.” If he takes it as an overly heavy confession, he may pull away, so it would be even better to add something like, “It’s not that I expect you to stop seeing anyone else,” phrased naturally. That should be more than enough for a man, and it might solve the problem right there. If you need to take things one step further, though, figuring out how to make a move can be tricky. Since he’s the kind of man who sometimes ends things without becoming intimate, and you’ve never made the first move yourself, he’d probably be surprised if you suddenly became very forward. You might be able to push ahead successfully, but there are risks. If you want to play it safe, a gentler approach—quietly snuggling up to him or hugging him without saying anything—would be better. If you tell him what I suggested at the beginning beforehand, he should understand your feelings perfectly well. One thing to keep in mind: some men may be slightly ED-prone and unable to be very aggressive. If that’s the case, pushing too hard could make him feel pressured, so take a step back for now. Even if you can’t connect physically, being emotionally connected is still progress, right? If you ask another question here later, I can offer the next prescription, so there’s no need to worry.

I’m Marika. If you’re staying overnight, getting physically close when you’re alone together will probably create that kind of atmosphere. During the day, you could hug while sharing passionate kisses, or in the morning, move closer to him while you’re still half-asleep. I don’t think words are necessary.

I’m Kazu, a male member. If you’re that fond of your papa (a male supporter), I’m sure you have a good grasp of his preferences and turn-ons. You could use those to tease him. For example, I’m into lingerie, so if someone said, “I bought some new garter stockings. Want to see them?” my eyes would light up. Even if it wasn’t lingerie, there are certain outfits I’d practically pounce on her for wearing—so if she showed up in one of those, I’d be all over her. Even with someone who doesn’t usually react much, if you said, “Please let me go down on you, [name],” sex would almost certainly start. If you said, “Hey… I’m suddenly in the mood to be taken,” or “I’m starting to want you,” I don’t think there’s a man who wouldn’t get aroused. Since you’re asking this question, I assume you don’t normally show that side of yourself. That means almost anything you say could flip your papa’s switch. Saying “I’m suddenly in the mood to be taken” right away might be too intense, so start with something milder and gradually escalate every few months. Something simple like “I’m starting to want you” is less provocative—while anything you feel you could never bring yourself to say is more intense. If you can’t think of anything, read some ladies’ comics or something for inspiration. A woman’s bashfulness is usually enough to light a fire in a man’s heart. A regular romantic partner usually won’t say these things outright, so I feel that a partner who openly expresses her sexual desires is someone men will cherish. Good luck. One more thing I just remembered: once, after I hadn’t seen someone I was dating for two weeks, she texted me, “I’ve been masturbating more often because it’s been a while since I saw you, Kazu.” It really sent shivers through me.