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Jan 19, 2021 14:42
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Would messages with heart emojis be too much for him as well?
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🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Maezawa from the CEO’s office here with an answer as well.
Someone asked the same question a little while ago, but I don’t think it’s a problem at all.
Age: 60s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Basil, a male member.
It depends on how often we see each other.
If someone I usually meet once a month contacts me wanting to meet again the following week, I can’t help but assume she’s short on money or has been dropped by someone else, which makes me pull back a little.
Of course, I don’t mind being told occasionally that she’d like to see me.
Other
I’m Taro, a male member.
It’s not a problem at all. If anything, I’m happy about it. And when it comes from a girl, using heart emojis is perfectly normal.
There are occasionally people whose “I want to see you” really means “I want money,” but I see that as them making an effort with their outreach, so I don’t take it badly.
That said, being persistent can be a problem—it’s all about how you go about it. Everyone is different, so pay close attention to the other person’s reactions and adjust your approach thoughtfully.
いっつ・みぃ
Male
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Age: 50s
👨 Male
Other
It’s me.
If someone did that, it would actually get me excited~
At clubs and in papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), there really are men around me who won’t make a move unless the woman says she wants to meet, so I think it’s perfectly fine for a woman to show her interest in a natural way.
That said, some men find clingy behavior a hassle, so I think it depends on the other person’s personality.
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スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m in Seattle.
It doesn’t bother me at all. I’m touched that you feel that way. The heart is cute, too.