Tips Jan 19, 2021 13:53

I’m a female member. It’s been a little over a week since I signed up, but I haven’t received any offers. Is all I can do wait? Should I just keep at it?

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Makii from our Tokyo staff would also like to respond. At the moment, we have twice as many female members as male members, so it’s true that getting offers can be difficult. However, when you log in to the female members’ page, you’ll find features such as posting selfies, taking the “mistress compatibility” assessment, and adding the days you’re available for dates to a calendar. Please make full use of these features so you can attract attention from male members m(__)m Since receiving an offer is a valuable opportunity, we hope you’ll cherish the connection with any men you meet for dates m(__)m
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Maezawa from the President’s Office here. Thank you for your question. After only one week since registering, I think it’s still far too soon to worry. It’s true that popular women receive offers almost immediately after registering, but being “popular” means being the kind of woman who could win first place in a contest like Miss Something—roughly one in 200 women. For everyone else, it’s usually about one or two offers during the first month, so I think you should wait at least a month for now. Of course, there’s nothing wrong with taking action from this point, but basically, I think all you can do is write a good profile comment. Many men do read the comments, so if you include something that catches their interest, it may increase your chances of receiving an offer. As for selfie photos—especially edited ones—I don’t recommend uploading pictures taken with your smartphone. They’re more likely to work against you. Proper photos taken by a professional, or photos taken while traveling, can sometimes work in your favor.
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Age: 40s 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Flag Maker, a column writer. This is a bit of a plug for my own column, but I’ve put a lot of effort into writing it, so I’d really appreciate it if you gave it a read. Papa-Katsu Advice Desk Report ①: “How to Get More Offers and Continue Seeing Your Papa” https://universe-club.jp/column/onanamireport1
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Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member. Some women receive a huge number of offers, but most women don’t get that many. As for the numbers, it’s roughly like this: https://universe-club.jp/help/questions/view/5386 Since it’s basically like fishing, I think it’s best to be patient. There are things women can do themselves, such as writing a comment or uploading private photos so they appear near the top again. However, if you do this too frequently, it may give the negative impression that an unpopular woman is desperately trying to get attention, or that she relies on papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) to make a living. So I think it’s best to do it in moderation. Personally, I also recommend avoiding heavily edited private photos, such as ones that make your eyes look much larger. As soon as I see edited photos uploaded, I stop considering making an offer. Also, if a woman writes something that makes me interested in the mistress profile quiz, or if I get a sense that she has a good personality, I’ll consider making an offer. If you haven’t answered the mistress profile quiz yet, it might be worth trying. I don’t know whether this will increase the number of offers you receive, but when I’m considering making offers to several women, I find it easier to plan if they’ve entered their available dates on the calendar, so I’ll contact them first. I’ve written quite a bit, but I know two women who received more than 20 offers—not through CA—and they had only written a comment and completed the mistress profile quiz. They had left them that way since shortly after registering. I hope this helps in some way. 追加 after reading Seattle’s answer: That’s true—if a woman writes in her comment, “I’ll do anything, so please contact me,” and she’s within my type physically, my sleazy side comes out and I’ll make an offer just to see what happens. I’ve searched for E-types before, wondering if there might be someone interesting, but I didn’t find anyone I was particularly interested in, so I decided not to make an offer. Being an E-type might help you stand out.
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Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
I’m in Seattle. If you’re really struggling, try writing something in your profile like, “I’m willing to do anything, so please help me,” and switch to Type E. At the end of the day, all you can do is put your heart into writing your profile.
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Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
I’m “Paper Airplane,” a male member. Some women receive multiple offers on their first day, while others receive just one offer every month or two. I think both types have their own appeal and are sought after by men. Having lots of offers isn’t necessarily always a good thing. If you receive fewer, you may be able to value each rare encounter more, and there are men who are a better match for that kind of arrangement.
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