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Jan 18, 2021 23:54
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お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Maezawa from the executive office here, answering your question as well.
Thank you for your question.
> Would messages with heart emojis put him off?
I don’t think there are many male members who would be put off by something like that.
> Would it be a nuisance to say things like, “I want to see you soon”? Would he feel uncomfortable thinking that “wanting to meet = wanting money”?
I don’t think it would be a nuisance at all.
That said, if you’ve already made plans to meet next time but then ask to meet again even sooner, he might wonder whether you’ve run short of money. But I don’t think that would necessarily make him feel bad.
However, if he says it’s unfortunately difficult to meet again before your next scheduled date and you keep pressing him, that might make him uncomfortable.
As you look forward to your next date, saying things like:
“I want to see you soon.”
“I’m looking forward to seeing you.”
will probably make many men happy.
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Age: 50s
👨 Male
Other
It’s me.
I think it really depends on the person’s sense of how they use heart emojis.
A heart emoji by itself, or just the words “I want to see you,” can feel a little shallow. But when it’s used in a specific, easy-to-picture context—like “I’d love to go on a date like this”—even knowing it’s papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), I’d probably get incredibly excited ♪( ´▽｀)
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Age: 40s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Flagmaker, a column writer.
When she says “I want to see you♡,” I assume half of it is about the money, but the heart still makes me genuinely happy. When a woman I’m seeing and really like doesn’t send me hearts very often, I’m like, “Grrr…” Even just an exclamation mark (!) would make me happy, so I wish she’d send me something like that.
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを！
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中！
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです！
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Paper Airplane, a male member.
I’m happy to receive heart emojis.
At first, I hold back and don’t use them myself, but when I receive a heart for the first time, it makes me happy. After that, I feel comfortable sending one back.
I’m also more than happy to hear “I want to see you soon.” Of course, wanting to meet means wanting an allowance too, but it still feels good to be relied on.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
Speaking for myself, I assume women are looking for an allowance—but that’s presumably why they use a dating club in the first place, so I don’t see how I could take it badly.
Some men may feel uncomfortable just thinking about money, but those men might even start saying that giving an allowance makes the relationship feel loveless, which makes them difficult to deal with.