We weren’t meeting for the first time—we’ve been seeing each other for about six months now.

I’m Maezawa from the CEO’s office, and I’ll answer this as well. Thank you for your question. > I went along with it because the allowance I could offer was slightly lower than the amount she asked for. Honestly, people like this should quit. Seriously. If you could only offer an allowance below what she wanted, then that woman was an angel. She still treated you well despite the low allowance. You should be much more grateful. You won’t find a woman that wonderful very often. And yet you say: > “Up until now, I’ve tried to accommodate my partners in various ways—for example, insisting on using a condom from the start during penetration, not allowing spanking, not allowing anal, and so on.” I think you should try a dating site instead. Normally, all of those requests would be refused. Even if you found a woman willing to go along with them, she would probably ask for extra compensation. Besides, anal isn’t even a sexual organ, so I don’t understand what you mean by saying you “put up with” not being allowed to do it. As for spanking, if that’s the kind of play you want, why not go to an SM club? And if you wanted to find someone you genuinely liked, I don’t understand why you put up with it when you already knew from the first meeting that you didn’t like her. The one who was putting up with things was the woman. I almost want to praise her for putting up with you all this time. She must have been a very kind person.

I’m だて◎ゆめ, a male member. Haha（笑） Well, that’s just how it is! > Do women really dislike going for a second round that much? I think they do. I suspect the expressions that look like they’re enjoying the first round are just an act. If you can’t have the kind of relationship you want, I think it’s best to immediately start looking for a replacement. As you mentioned in your comment on Flagmaker’s column, there seem to be quite a few women waiting for an offer. You could say to your assigned branch, “I’d like to make an offer to someone who hasn’t received one yet,” and ask them to introduce you to someone.

I’m in Seattle. As for round two, that’s something the woman brings up. Have you looked in the mirror lately? If you’re broke, try being humble.

I’m Flagmaker, a columnist. It’s a very unfortunate story, but other people’s misfortune can be strangely satisfying. Honestly, I’m kind of happy about it, lol. “An additional fee” really kills the mood. I once got turned down for morning s*x after an overnight stay, and ever since then I’ve been too chicken to ask for a second round. There’s a good chance I’d end up with the same result as the person asking the question, simply because I’m worried they might charge me extra for it. Maybe I’ll work up the courage to ask for a second round myself sometime soon—and come back having suffered the same defeat.

I’m Kazu, a male member. There sure are a lot of bait questions today. Regardless of what happened at the beginning, most people would normally use a condom, and spanking or anal would also be off-limits unless that was something the woman was into. It’s not that you compromised—the woman simply didn’t agree to those things. Since she wouldn’t want to go another round with such a self-centered man, I imagine that’s why she asked for an additional fee. Let me put it another way and answer again. The woman doesn’t dislike a second round. She simply dislikes having a second round with you for free. It’s strange that you, despite having no real feelings for the woman and only caring about your own desires, expect her to have feelings for you. I’ve ended up being harsh again.

Maki from the Tokyo team here. From the woman’s perspective, I don’t think she has romantic feelings for you, since you’re probably neither her boyfriend nor someone she intends to marry. As for using condoms and anal sex, I feel it would be best for both of you to keep things gentlemanly and protect each other’s well-being.