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Jan 16, 2021 20:03
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I’m Tetsu, a male member.
I’m not sure what being a hero feels like, so I can’t really answer that.
As for how I feel when meeting a woman, at first it’s almost like “nothing.” When I make an offer, I have a certain image of her in my mind, but I rarely feel emotionally invested from the start, so it’s basically “nothing.” It’s only after we actually meet and talk that something clicks inside me and I start to develop feelings.
As we continue seeing each other, I increasingly find myself wanting the woman I’m seeing to be happy.
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Date◎Yume, a male member.
> Do you feel like you’re trying to play the hero?
Not at all.
If anything, I feel grateful. Whenever I get the chance, I’d like to give back that kindness in some way.
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Maezawa from the CEO’s Office here.
Thanks for your question.
I don’t think most people feel that way.
Men who give someone tens of thousands of yen just for dinner, or lend them millions of yen interest-free, might feel that way to some extent.
But basically, I think they just want both parties to be satisfied with the arrangement.
🏅 ４０歳でリアル異世界転生したオッサン l 元金融マン → 現ＡＩ界隈
出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
Age: 40s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Flag Maker, a column writer.
Thinking about it after being told that, I realized I may not have any feelings beyond simply wanting things to go smoothly. That’s what I pay an allowance for, so I don’t feel like some kind of hero. For me, getting into that kind of relationship without an allowance would be quite difficult. The allowance and a smooth adult relationship—that’s all it is. It balances out.
Other than that, I suppose I just try not to do anything the other person dislikes. I even apologize if things get a little too intense or if I simply work up a sweat. I feel like I say “I’m sorry,” “I apologize,” and “thank you” a lot.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
I don’t have any. With the women I click with and continue seeing, I’m glad we’re both able to have our needs met.
When a woman I’m no longer seeing still reaches out wanting to meet, I feel bad that I wasn’t able to meet her needs.