Why would a man slap my cheek during an intimate encounter? Is it because he thinks I’m unattractive, dislikes me, or is taking out his stress?

Maezawa from the president’s office here as well. Thank you for your question. We sometimes receive complaints from club members saying, “My partner became violent with me.” When we looked into one case involving such a terrible man, we found out that he had slapped her. Apparently, he slapped her hard enough to cause some swelling. From the man’s perspective, it was supposedly part of the experience, but when you consider that: - He slapped her before they even went to the hotel. - He did so without her consent. - He slapped her again even after she told him to stop. There’s no question that this was violence. But the man says that wasn’t his intention. People may have different preferences, but a man who suddenly slaps a woman on the day they first meet is frightening. If the woman presses charges, it would be treated as assault. I absolutely want men to stop doing this. I suspect you were slapped even though you don’t have that kind of preference either. If your situation was similar to the one described above, please give the club feedback right away. We need to warn the man. If we’ve received similar complaints in the past and this was the third one, he would be forcibly removed from the club. To prevent other women from being harmed, we would really appreciate your feedback. That said, please try not to write while consumed by anger. Stick to the facts as much as possible. I’d hate for you to be treated like a difficult complainer when you wrote in to protect other women ＞＜ And if you were slapped without consenting to it and without having that preference, it’s completely understandable that you might think, “Was it because he thought I was unattractive? Because he disliked me? Was he just taking out his stress?” That man is entirely in the wrong.

I’m Kazu, a male member. Don’t you think wanting to force part of one’s body—namely, a penis—into someone else’s body, namely, their vagina, and move it around violently is, in a sense, an act of violence? Men do have those violent urges. For some people, that violent impulse may be redirected toward—or connected with—the urge to slap their partner’s cheek. That’s simply their sexual preference. It’s possible that precisely because they like the person, and because she’s beautiful, they see her as the perfect person to direct those urges toward. It’s the same as deciding whether you’re willing to let him put his penis inside you. If you think it’s okay to let him slap you, then continue seeing him. If you feel that being slapped isn’t worth it, then say goodbye.

I’m Taro, a male member. I guess he thinks that’s just the kind of thing you’re into. Apparently, some people even choke their partners. It’s not necessarily because they dislike them—they seem to think the other person will enjoy it. Makes no sense, right? lol If you don’t like it, look for other options. Ideally, you’d end things after finding your next candidate, but if you really can’t stand it, it’s fine to cut him off immediately. I don’t know how much your allowance is, but if I were in your position, I’d hate being worn down by some pervert even more.