A man told me that watching me get aroused and climax is what satisfies him.

I’m Taro, a male member. ----- Once upon a time, there was an old man and a woman who was flawless in both looks and personality—but for some reason, she just didn’t stir anything in him. The old man did his best, but he simply couldn’t finish. Naturally, the atmosphere became a little awkward. The woman briefly looked disappointed, but quickly hid it and said, “I guess it’s my fault. I’m sorry.” Unable to bear seeing her like that, the old man replied with a smile, “Don’t worry about me. If you can enjoy yourself, that’s all I need.” Smiling on the outside and crying on the inside, the old man thought to himself, “A man of the Showa era will always be a man of the Showa era.” He was happy to see her smile return, but he couldn’t suppress his sadness. Naturally, he wasn’t satisfied with that outcome. Every day, he secretly browsed the site, desperately searching for other options. On his first shrine visit of the year, he made a generous offering and sincerely repeated ten times in his heart: “I want to be with a really attractive woman.” Then one day, while they were together, he casually turned her over—and what do you know? There it was, like a freshly caught little fish! (Toru Muramatsu) The old man finally experienced a sense of fulfillment for the first time in ages and finished in spectacular fashion. “I can finally see the path to the goal!” he roared inwardly, throwing a triumphant fist pump. (Ishimatsu) Having fully regained his confidence as a striker, the old man was overjoyed that, just that day, he even managed a hat trick worthy of Kazuyoshi Miura in his prime. And so, the troubling problem was completely solved. The two of them continued their happy financial relationship for many years to come. And they lived happily ever after.

I’m Maezawa from the president’s office, and I’ll answer this as well. Thank you for your question. Just because a man takes a long time to finish doesn’t necessarily mean he’ll be satisfied without being taken all the way. If you stop on your own and he says that it’s okay even if he doesn’t finish, then you can assume he’s fine with not going all the way. So if you try to stop on your own simply because he’s taking a while to finish, he may feel disappointed. The same goes for ending things partway through without him saying anything. To avoid any awkwardness if he wants to continue, it’s probably best to stay open to continuing at any time. Some men may lose their erection partway through but still want to finish. In that case, I think it’s best to gently ask what you can do. It may lead to a conversation about using your hands or mouth, but showing that kind of kindness could improve your relationship going forward. Of course, some men are perfectly fine with not finishing. Some may simply enjoy being affectionate in bed, while others may just want the woman to feel good. Everyone is different, so I think it’s a good idea to talk openly with the man.

I’m a male member, Paper Airplane. > He did seem to be someone who rarely finished, perhaps partly because of his age. That does tend to happen as men get older—they meet more and more women they simply don’t click with physically. So what the man you’re seeing said may well have been genuine, but… If you can help him finish quickly and easily, unlike other women, he’ll definitely become completely captivated by you. He probably won’t get bored and will stay hooked for a long time. What he really wants, deep down, is probably to find—or hopefully come across—a woman he can finish comfortably with at the right moment. Even if it’s difficult, I think his ideal partner is someone who can finish herself and with whom he can finish as well. Men have a hard time too, because it’s difficult to find someone who matches both physically and in terms of appearance. When the man takes a long time to finish, the mood drops, he feels sorry, he gets anxious, and it becomes an even worse cycle. The woman probably doesn’t enjoy it either, so he may end up giving up and deciding it’s better not to finish than to inconvenience her that much… I don’t know whether things might simply become normal for him unless he meets a woman he’s truly compatible with. But once he does meet someone he’s highly compatible with, he may stop wanting to see other women under the same circumstances. No—he probably will. So I wouldn’t take the word “satisfied” as his true feelings.

I’m Kazu, a male member. I’m not particularly focused on my own climax either. But if I’ve been with someone five times and haven’t climaxed even once, I do find myself thinking I might as well meet someone with whom it’s more likely to happen. Also, if a woman gives up from the start because she assumes she won’t be able to make me climax anyway, my feelings gradually start to fade.

I’m in Seattle. As I’ve gotten older, I’ve been getting slower too. Sometimes I just can’t. What you talk about and how the other person responds matter more, so I don’t think your partner is wrong.

I’m だて◎ゆめ, a male member. I’m in my sixties. In my case, I do want to climax and enjoy seeing a woman feeling good, so I suppose I’m a bit greedy—but I’m more interested in enjoying the experience itself than the climax alone. In your situation, I think that would definitely be perfectly fine. That said, I’m sure he’d be very pleased if you put in a little “effort” using all kinds of techniques（笑).