My husband joined your service by falsely claiming he was single.
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Due to the power balance in our marriage, I cannot force him to withdraw.
So I would like to ask: when members have sex, do you require them to use condoms?
My husband has cheated with several women in the past, and he had sex with them without condoms as well.
He seems to hate condoms so much that he considers not using them a personal principle.
He has absolutely no concern about sexually transmitted infections, so I often end up worrying about it and losing sleep.
However, I do not want to contract an STI, nor do I want any of his partners to become pregnant, so if he is going to use your service, I would like him to wear a condom.
At the time of joining, do you state that condom use is mandatory, or, since this is based on free relationships, is your policy to leave it up to the individuals involved? Surely, if Universe’s policy is that condoms are mandatory, he would follow it.
Regardless of which policy you have, I am not trying to criticize Universe, so please simply tell me the facts.
Universe Club Tokyo’s assistant chief, Aizawa, will answer as well.
Universe Club isn’t able to get involved in the details of anyone’s relationship, so we don’t know whether the person you went on a date with went to a hotel afterward. Therefore, we also can’t tell whether your husband’s relationship has progressed or whether he uses protection.
Most women tend to be uncomfortable with someone who doesn’t use condoms, so I get the feeling things may not be going very well for him…
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I’m Taro, a male member.
I don’t think they asked whether I was married or single when I joined...
But wow, you two have quite a marriage. Your husband tells you all of that, right?
And even after all that, the only issue is whether to use protection...
Oh, and my answer is: “It’s up to the person involved.” That’s outside the scope of dating clubs. I think it’s probably the same everywhere, not just at Universe.
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I’m Meg, a female member.
You didn’t have to pretend you were single.
It’s awful to make your wife feel hurt over and over again. I wish you’d at least kept it hidden properly.
Though I’m not really in a position to say that.
Yes, I’ll be careful too (sweat).
＞To Rice Magistrate
Wow, thank you for such a thoughtful message!
You’re wonderful for always staying true to one person, Magistrate.
I look forward to your continued support this year as well.
m(_ _)m
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I’m Date◎Yume, a male member.
Haha（笑）
Actually, I’m married too.
I think everyone has their own reasons for signing up with a dating club. Unless those underlying issues are addressed, people will continue to register.
When dating women, you can’t avoid the issues of pregnancy and sexually transmitted infections, so you have to proceed carefully. A dating club only makes introductions; what happens afterward is up to the individuals involved and falls outside the club’s responsibility.
That said, the club does promote things like getting a Partners Check, so after that, it comes down to each person’s awareness and approach.
STIs aren’t something you can deal with simply by using condoms, either（笑）
It’s best to take thorough precautions with the “what if” in mind…
P.S.
Oh, Mig-san!
Hope you have another great year（笑）
I’ve been feeling a little lonely because there have been so few comments from women lately. Since dating involves both men and women, I think women’s perspectives are important too.
I’m sure everyone has their own circumstances, but I’d really appreciate it if you and Papuwa-san could comment from time to time.
Papuwa-san, I hope you’re doing well too（笑）
I wonder if you’re reading this～
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Maezawa from the President’s Office will answer this one as well.
Thank you for your question.
Universe Club simply arranges meetings between men and women. The arrangement is simply: “Please have a meal together.”
Do you need a condom for dinner?
What happens after the meal is up to the two of you.
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I’m in Seattle.
Universe Club only arranges the introductions, so what happens after that is up to the individuals involved.
If your husband refuses to use condoms, pregnancy and STIs are certainly possible.
If he’s wealthy enough to deal with the consequences of a pregnancy or an STI, then isn’t that a good thing? If you still can’t accept it, I’d recommend keeping evidence and divorcing him so you can get a substantial share of the marital assets.
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