I think I’ve fallen in love. I’m a female member in my third year of university.
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I regularly meet a man I was introduced to through this site.
We LINE almost every day, and I’ve been having so much fun that I’ve fallen for him. Of course, I have no intention whatsoever of breaking up his family or anything like that.
Have any of you ever fallen for someone you met through this site?
Am I the only one who gets emotionally attached so easily?
And how do you handle it when you start developing feelings?
I’m Taro, a male member.
If it’s a light, uncomplicated kind of love, why not? You should tell the other person, too.
The genders are reversed, but I find myself in that situation sometimes as well. When I do, I usually say it pretty quickly.
You can say “I like you” as casually as you’d say “thank you.” After all, it’s just a light feeling.
That said, it’s important to express how you feel. It can deepen the relationship and make the experience more meaningful, too.
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I’m Meg, one of the female members.
When a college student like you says that, it’s just adorable…
I’m the type to focus all my attention on one person, too. I’m well over 40, but I absolutely adore my papa (a male supporter). Sorry for being such an old lady.
When we had just started seeing each other, I didn’t really understand boundaries yet, so I sometimes had to be calmed down.
Over the past year, I’ve learned that it’s better not to suddenly say things like, “I want to come see you!”
If he’s married, it can be difficult for him to make time.
Sometimes I think about all kinds of things while we’re apart and end up feeling miserable.
When that happens, I can get caught in an endless negative loop… So I think it’s best to have a solid sense of self and face things with your papa (a male supporter) from there～(*^^*)
You reminded me of when I used to dance the “Koi” dance.
Thanks♪
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I’m だて◎ゆめ, a male member.
As long as you keep clear boundaries, I think it’s fine to leave things as they are.
I’m married and an old man. I’ve been seeing someone I was introduced to here for nearly two years now, and things are going well. (Although maybe I’m the only one who feels that way…)
There are so many men and women in the world, but it’s surprisingly difficult to build a relationship that truly feels right.
I think they’ll treat you well, so if they do, you should cherish them in return.
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I’m a lost woman in my 60s.
Why not imagine the man telling you, “Our relationship has an expiration date. We’ll be parting ways in a few months,” and let yourself cry as hard as you can?
If you can’t imagine it, ask him to say it to you—and then cry. If he’s the kind of man who says, “I could never say something like that,” then perhaps it would be better to end things.
Especially when this is a club arrangement and the other person is married, you need to have at least some ability to keep things transactional…
I’m speaking from my own experience. By telling her clearly how I felt, I was able to understand how serious she was. We had a fulfilling relationship and were able to part ways with good memories.
I hope things work out well for you.
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Maezawa from the CEO’s Office here—I’ll answer as well.
Thank you for your question.
I think most men would be happy if their partner came to feel that way about them. However, if things go too far, it can become frightening for the man too. So I think it’s best to maintain those feelings while still making it clear that you’re with him because he provides financial support.
If he doesn’t have a family, though, I think it’s fine to let yourself fall for him.
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I’m Flag Maker, a column writer.
It’s not so much that I’ve fallen for someone before—I’m actually in love with someone right now. As for how I deal with it, I simply keep my feelings under control.
I’ve also had people I met through places like this tell me, “I want you to marry me.” But I think that’s because I seem like the type who’s suited for marriage, not because they’ve actually fallen for me.
I’m naturally pretty suspicious, and I don’t really trust women when they say they “like” me in the first place. So when someone I don’t like shows interest in me, I honestly feel pretty conflicted. If they tell me they like me, my reaction is basically, “No, no, no—you just don’t know me. Want me to show you the worst parts of myself?” That’s genuinely how I feel for some reason（笑）
On the other hand, when I sense interest from a woman I like, I get carried away all at once（笑） I guess I’m the type who wants to be in love.
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I’m Kamihikōki, a male club member who gets engaged to women I date after three months and then gets married soon after—this has happened several times… lol. (It’s not marriage fraud, I promise…)
When you’re a college student, you’re probably at the age when it’s easiest to fall head over heels, even after a chance encounter. I wonder if your meeting through the club was just as dramatic?
Whether you meet someone through the club or elsewhere, I hope it becomes a wonderful romance and a beautiful lifelong memory.
If he’s a male club member, I think it’s perfectly fine to fall for him wholeheartedly, without worrying too much.
You’re at an age when you can have a straightforward, passionate romance.
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