Tips Jan 4, 2021 18:46

I’m a woman considering joining a dating club.

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I’m sorry for bringing up such a personal subject, but I haven’t had any experience with men yet. My sexuality is somewhat complicated, and lately I’ve found myself becoming interested in older, financially comfortable men. (I believe I’m quite young.) I also have many insecurities about my body, so although I’m curious, I can’t bring myself to take the plunge. Are there men at this dating club who would accept me, including my sexuality and all my insecurities? Since my interactions are limited in ordinary life, I’m unsure whether I should take this opportunity to step outside my comfort zone. I’d be very grateful if anyone familiar with this dating club, or anyone with a similar experience, could share their experiences and thoughts. Thank you.
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I’m Taro, a male member. Are you LGBTQ+? Society has changed in many ways compared with the past, but I still think it can be a restrictive place. It’s important to have the courage to be open about who you are and try to find somewhere you belong. It makes me want to support you. When it comes to meeting people, there are around 2,000 male members here, so that’s still a fairly sizeable pool. It would be best to be straightforward about your situation during the interview. That way, it can be reflected in the club’s comments, and you’ll only receive offers from people who are understanding. There have even been transgender women registered here before, so I definitely think it’s worth a try. Every living being born into this world has the right to live as themselves. I’m fighting every day to protect that right. Your courage in trying to take that first step is 100% justified. Walk forward with confidence. Wishing you the very best!
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Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Fullerene, a male member! Take it easy, questioner! I can’t add anything beyond Sakura’s answer, but since you’re “very young,” I think you’re only just reaching the point where you can start choosing your own path. Don’t limit yourself to Universe—please take the plunge and try all the things that catch your interest. I’m rooting for you. The world is a big place!
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Age: Private 👨 Male Universe staff
Maezawa from the executive office here. Thank you for your question. About half—or maybe 40%—of our male members are kind and genuinely nice people. The rest are a little questionable. (笑) Simply registering doesn’t guarantee that you’ll meet someone suitable. However, with Universe Club, you can start with a meal and then decide what you’d like to do afterward. During the meal, you can judge whether he’s a good person and someone who will accept you for who you are. Since you’re hoping to have your first experience here, I think Relationship Type B should work for you. If you meet him and feel it’s not for you, you’re free to decline. I’m sure you’ll meet someone who accepts you for who you are.
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I’m Date ◎ Yume, a male member. Please rest assured. Our dating club has many members with a wide range of experience. Recently, we had someone with a concern similar to yours, and it seemed to be resolved without any issues. Why not join our dating club and consult with the staff at your local branch? Alternatively, if you post again in this anonymous Q&A box, I believe your problem can be resolved.
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