Could you tell me some sexy gestures to help him get back in the mood? The papa I like has been losing his erection partway through more often lately.
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Even when I try to show my sex appeal, things often end halfway through, which makes me feel sorry and sad.
I’d like us to stay close this year too.
What should I do?
Thank you in advance.
I’m Tetsu, a male member.
I can’t say for sure if the cause is physical, but if it’s psychological, you may simply be having trouble staying focused.
It’s easy to lose your arousal if you start thinking about unrelated things during sex. Try immersing yourself in the moment—even to the point where it feels excessive—so you don’t have room to think about anything else. For example, you could repeatedly use dirty talk, be more proactive, try going down on her, or make out passionately during sex.
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Universe Club Tokyo, Mamiya here with an answer.
You sound like a wonderful person who really cares about your papa…
Yesterday, while watching the Hakone Ekiden, I was inspired all over again by the coach’s words during the final push. I believe encouragement during sex is important too.
Try kissing him or saying something to him along the way. Switch things up with movements or positions you don’t usually use. Also, your papa probably has a position that makes it easier for him to climax, so instead of starting with it, save it for the end.
As men get older and their muscle strength declines, using different muscles can sometimes make it difficult for them to focus on their manhood.
Sorry—I wrote this assuming that feeling love and affection, rather than simply receiving sexy attention, is what gets him motivated. Don’t focus only on technique; put your full attention into making sure you enjoy yourself too!!
After that, I think it’s also important to move toward a kind of sex where climaxing together isn’t the only goal.
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
There’s a difference between being sexy and being erotic. Sexiness has nothing to do with an erection, whereas eroticism can lead to one, I think.
What people find erotic varies from person to person, so it’s hard to say. For me, when a woman lets go of—or loosens—her inhibitions, it makes me feel like I can let my guard down too. Specifically, I suppose I mean the kind of sexually forward play that Seattle-san mentioned.
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Maezawa from the CEO’s office here.
Thank you for your question.
This is most likely due to the effects of aging, so I think it’s best not to bring it up too much.
There are medications like Viagra these days, so if he wants to do something about it, there are options. That said, I don’t think it’s a good idea for the woman to bring up medication herself.
Instead, act as though nothing happened and, even if things were interrupted, say something like, “That felt really good.”
Whether he finished or not doesn’t matter. You can simply be affectionate in bed. Even just talking can be enjoyable.
I think it’s best to approach the relationship with that attitude.
Another option might be pelvic floor training, to help prevent things from fading physically. However, I’m not really sure whether training actually makes a difference, so if you try it and notice any improvement, let me know.
Also, if the condom isn’t particularly thin, switching to a thinner one may make a difference. I recommend the 0.02 mm type, although the thinnest available is 0.01 mm.
I’m not really sure what’s wrong with the 0.01 mm ones, though.
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