Tips Dec 30, 2020 21:06

After our first date, he stubbornly refused to exchange LINE contact information and asked me to communicate via KakaoTalk instead—telling me to download it if I didn’t already have it. At the time, I felt I was being treated very dismissively, so I was taken aback and ended up acting cold toward him too. But then I reconsidered, thinking he probably had his reasons, and wondered if I had been immature for acting cold. I’d appreciate any advice on how I should look at this situation…

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I’m Taro, a male member. I’ve had exactly the same experience. Maybe it was the same girl, haha. I reluctantly installed KakaoTalk on the spot and exchanged contact information with her. There were a few other annoying things afterward, but in the end, she was just very guarded. Once we got to know each other, she turned out to be a genuinely nice girl. I understand how you feel. But if you’re interested in her, you should tell her how you feel. It should be fine if you adjust the wording and send her something along the lines of what you wrote in your question. Best of luck.
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I’m Kazu, a male member. Since people often register LINE under their real names, I imagine she’d rather use KakaoTalk with someone she doesn’t know well yet. I’ve never gone as far as telling anyone, “If you don’t have it installed, download it,” but I understand wanting to use KakaoTalk with someone you’re still getting to know. I don’t think it means she’s treating you carelessly. It’s probably something minor, like having her real name as her LINE display name or using a name or photo she’d be embarrassed for someone to see.
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I’m だて◎ゆめ, a male member. I’m sure there’s a reason why she prefers a particular means of communication. The question is whether you’re willing to compromise and use the method she specified. Or, if you’re curious to find out why she chose it, it might be fun to go along with her preference. That could give you one more way to enjoy the relationship(笑). A little playful spirit goes a long way…
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Maezawa from the President’s Office here. Thank you for your question. Until fairly recently, the usual practice was to use LINE with friends and Kakao with everyone else. I think many people still do that. If your partner says they’d prefer to use Kakao, I think it’s best to download it and exchange contact information. There’s no need to overthink it. If it’s something they want and you’re able to accommodate, then you should. That seems perfectly fine to me. In this case, it sounds like something you can easily accommodate.
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I’m a male member, Paper Airplane. If you feel even a little unsatisfied, I recommend ending things. I don’t think you need to settle until you meet a woman who fulfills your needs.
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