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Dec 27, 2020 19:33
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I’m married, but I want the women I meet to genuinely enjoy themselves, and I want to enjoy myself too, which is why I’m asking.
I’m wondering whether it might be better not to tell them I’m married, as long as they’re having a good time.
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I’m Tetsu, a male member.
I’m married too, but quite a few women won’t meet married men. They seem to be worried about potential trouble.
That said, there are also quite a few cases where, despite initially saying they won’t meet married men, that restriction goes away after meeting a few times.
I think it may be because they don’t know what someone is like at the first meeting, so they set narrow criteria at first—but once they realize he’s a good person, they’re willing to make an exception.
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👨 Male
Universe staff
Maezawa from the CEO’s Office here.
Thank you for your question.
I get the feeling that around 30% of women are against dating married men.
But even knowing that doesn’t really tell you whether the woman you’re interested in would feel the same way. Ultimately, what matters is the stance of the particular woman you want to make an offer to.
With that in mind, one option might be to subtly find out how she feels during your first date.
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m だて◎ゆめ, a male member.
Personally, I have no problem with someone being married at all(笑)
Things didn’t develop into a relationship, but the first person I made an offer to was married.
However, because her children were still very young and she also had a job, we kept communication to a minimum, so it was a little difficult for us to communicate with each other at first(笑)