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The girl I’m closest to told me, “I’m starting to feel possessive of you, ○○!” Does that mean she wants to have your allowance all to herself?

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Maezawa from the president’s office here as well. Thank you for your question. I think she wants to have you all to herself. In other words, she wants you to quit the dating club. And if you have a wife, she wants you to leave your wife as well. For now, she’s just expressing that her desires are starting to grow. I think what she really means is, “I want you to myself, but that’s impossible, right?” She’s probably watching to see how things develop. If you quit the club and tell her, “I quit because I wanted to respond to your feelings,” I think you’ll be able to tell from her reaction. If you don’t actually want to marry her, you could try increasing her allowance and deliberately say, “So, was it money you wanted?” By making it clear that this is purely a financial relationship, you may be able to cool things down.
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I’m Flagmaker, a papa-katsu columnist. Let’s actually put this to the test. Suppose she says, “I want you all to myself.” In that case, I might intentionally increase her pay-per-meeting allowance for our next date and see how she reacts. “You said you wanted me all to yourself, so I increased your allowance starting this time.” ① “Thanks♡” → In the end, she was just happy that her allowance went up. ② “That’s not what I meant! I want to see you more often!” (or “I want you to stop seeing the other girls!”) → She wants to increase her allowance—and have you all to herself—by seeing you more often. ③ “That’s not what I meant! I’m hurt… *sob*” → She wants your feelings all to herself. So, I’ll have a response ready for each of these three reactions.
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Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中! B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです! 会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
I’m a male member, “Paper Airplane.” What about this?  ASAP First, let’s make a ranking chart… Yokozuna, Ozeki, Sekiwake, Komusubi, Maegashira, and so on. And— If, right now, there’s one Yokozuna who stands head and shoulders above the rest, the Ozeki and Sekiwake spots are vacant, and she’s willing to meet you anytime every week, then let’s cut everyone below Komusubi.
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This is Kobayashi from the Tokyo branch. Perhaps he’s genuinely attracted to you emotionally... That said, as the other respondents have mentioned, I do think the allowance is also a factor.
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I’m Tetsu, a male member. Hmm, I have no idea what led her to say this, so I can’t tell whether she was being sincere or just paying lip service. It’s just a feeling, but I don’t think she means that she wants to have the allowance all to herself. If that were her intention, she’d probably be asking outright for allowance, gifts, and so on.
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Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member. That may or may not be the case. Sometimes, I think the desire to have someone’s time and affection all to yourself can be stronger than the allowance.
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