Could you share any tips for identifying female members who are former or current sex workers?

I’m Tetsu, a male member. Is there really any need to figure out whether a woman works in the adult-entertainment industry? Is that work really so wrong? I don’t think it’s enjoyable to look at people with suspicion. If you’ve ever visited an adult-entertainment establishment, you can probably tell to some extent. If you haven’t, then you wouldn’t be able to tell, since you’ve never experienced what goes on there. If you can identify them, I suppose you must have been there yourself. But using someone when it’s convenient for you, then treating them like the bad guy when it’s no longer convenient—is that really acceptable behavior?

Maezawa from the CEO’s office here as well. Thank you for your question. I’m not quite sure whether you’re trying to identify women who work in the adult entertainment industry because you want to meet them, or because you don’t. Some women who work in that industry appreciate that, through an exclusive dating club, they don’t have to be with someone they dislike. If it’s just intimacy, they can earn more through a regular venue, so many women register with dating clubs for the same reason men do: to enjoy a pseudo-romantic relationship. For that reason, I don’t think there’s much point in trying to identify them. Men aren’t the only ones who want a pseudo-romantic experience—but an allowance is absolutely necessary. With that in mind, I think it’s better not to worry too much about whether she works in the adult entertainment industry. If you want to enjoy professional techniques, you’ll probably be more satisfied going to a regular venue instead. That said, many women properly disclose their occupation. If she has disclosed it honestly, identifying her should be easy—but I won’t write how here. (笑) Just ask the staff, and they’ll tell you right away.

I’m Kazu, a male member. A few months ago, I made an offer to a woman with experience working in the adult entertainment industry because I was looking for a familiar partner who would take the lead using those kinds of techniques. I went back to her room full of anticipation, but she had only ever worked in a passive role, so she didn’t take the lead at all, and I was pretty disappointed. It was completely unexpected, and I felt ashamed of my own lack of foresight. Are you also looking for a familiar partner who will take the lead using adult-industry techniques?（笑） Apparently, there are a lot of narrow-minded men who don’t want to make offers to women with experience as adult entertainers. It’s rather sad. Come to think of it, I once met a woman who was currently working as a delivery escort. She said she provided full service because it was easy and paid well, but wanted to avoid sex at the dating club and make up for the income she’d lost during COVID through tea or meals instead. I decided I didn’t want to pursue an arrangement with her, so we parted without even exchanging contact information. Maybe I’m narrow-minded too（笑）

I’m Paper Airplane, a male member. I suppose it was when a woman with no professional background did something no one had ever done before (not a sexual thing)... And she did it without the slightest hesitation...

I’m Flag Maker, a column writer. With a seasoned lady, it’s probably less about the actual activities and more about the “time management” she’s developed over the years, along with the whole “getting ready to get into bed” routine—having towels and the bath ready, brushing her teeth, and so on.