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Dec 24, 2020 10:12
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🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Maezawa from the CEO’s office here. I’ll answer as well.
This feels less like a question and more like criticism—or maybe sarcasm. Are people asking these jealous, resentful questions because it’s Christmas today?
I don’t think people should lash out just because they’re lonely.
Under current Japanese law, marriage is monogamous. Some say that was established because it made it easier for the government to manage its citizens. Even the current marriage system is actually quite recent when viewed from a historical perspective.
Values change with the times. Systems gradually change as well.
Someday, it may become normal for people to have a spouse while also seeing other partners. You never know when change will come.
We live in an era when all kinds of things are changing. Until fairly recently, the law itself discriminated between children born in and out of wedlock, and it was taken for granted that they would receive different shares of an inheritance.
But when people challenged whether that “common sense” really made sense, the law itself changed.
🏅 大阪の昼寝引きこもりトレーダー
スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m in Seattle.
I’m single right now, but I never felt guilty about it.
If marriage allowed up to four spouses, like in some Muslim-majority countries, I might consider getting married.
The current marriage system is disadvantageous for wealthy people.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
It’s not exactly that I feel guilty, but I think my wife would be hurt and angry if she found out. I’d feel bad for hurting her, but she doesn’t satisfy my sexual needs, so I have my own side of the story.
I don’t think it’s possible to guarantee that she’ll never find out, but I try to act as discreetly as possible. If she asks for a divorce after finding out, I’m prepared to accept it. Even if she demands that I stop having sex outside the home, I won’t agree.
Other
I’m Tetsu, a male member.
Honestly, I don’t feel guilty. If I did, I wouldn’t be active at the club.
I go about it assuming that I’m probably the only one who thinks my wife hasn’t found out. Keeping that in mind helps me avoid getting carried away. After all, I have no idea whether my wife knows or not.
If I get caught, I’ll deal with it then. It’s entirely my own responsibility.
🏅 ４０歳でリアル異世界転生したオッサン l 元金融マン → 現ＡＩ界隈
出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
Age: 40s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Flag Maker, a column writer.
Maybe something’s gotten wired wrong in my head without me realizing it.
I don’t feel guilty toward my wife.
On the other hand, I sometimes feel guilty toward the woman I’m seeing.
Am I messed up? lol
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを！
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中！
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです！
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kamihikōki, a male member who gets sent packing by my wife every morning after each kiss, with a funny face and the words, “Go wherever you want,” and “Don’t bother coming back.”
So, I’m quietly doing my part to prevent any nighttime visits from my wife (and put an end to sleep disturbances).
“Hmm? What if she finds out?”
She’ll always be the love of my life until the day I die, even if she becomes bedridden. So if she were willing to keep me company every week (though I doubt I’ll ever receive that kind of reward again…), I wouldn’t be able to do it with anyone else. I wouldn’t need my long-term girlfriend anymore, either. Fortunately, this isn’t my first marriage, so in the end I was able to choose someone with whom I’m also physically compatible. I wouldn’t need to be with anyone else. Actually, I probably wouldn’t be able to.
P.S. Today, after I made a Christmas cake and cooked dinner, my wife graciously gave me permission, saying, “Fine, you’re allowed to come home.”