Universe Club Tokyo staff member Karasaki here as well.
Unfortunately, women who come in for interviews are generally looking for money. Whether they can successfully hide that from the men they meet probably has a lot to do with how popular they become.
Some popular women may even deliberately act overly focused on money in order to end a relationship.
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I’m Tetsu, a male member.
From my perspective, you come across as being very focused on money yourself. It’s something people pick up on from your words, actions, and overall attitude, so wouldn’t it be natural for everyone to see it differently?
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Maezawa from the CEO’s office here as well.
Thank you for your question.
The fact that you wrote only a single sentence about what you wanted to ask makes me wonder whether there may be some issues with this person’s character.
I get the impression that they always put their own opinions first and might automatically assume a woman is being money-minded the moment she even slightly brings up her allowance.
Men often use the phrase “money, money,” but I think what they consider money-minded can vary quite a lot from one man to another.
That being said, I don’t think there are actually that many women who think only about money, don’t see the other person as a human being, and care only about getting what they want.
Besides, you can usually tell right away while meeting and having a meal with someone like that—you don’t even need to make a special effort to identify them.
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I’m Kazu, a male member who has never met a woman at Universe who seemed overly focused on money.
I have no issue with women wanting an allowance—that’s only natural. But I think I would see someone as being money-focused if she completely ignored the man’s satisfaction and acted like she just wanted to collect her allowance and leave as quickly as possible.
Maybe a woman who only cares about her own desires is what people mean by a money-focused woman. Selfish, dick-brained men probably aren’t very popular with women either.
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I’m Fullerene, a male member!
Ultimately, I think it comes down to ignoring the other person’s humanity.
Women who seem overly money-focused probably become that way because they’ve been made to feel that anyone is fine as long as they pay. On the other hand, there are probably men who make women feel that anyone is fine as long as they’ll have sex with them.
When you genuinely care about someone, isn’t it natural to not want them to dislike you? Conversely, if you don’t care about someone, it doesn’t matter if they dislike you.
“I might as well make my demands, even if they end up hating me. Nothing to lose, and if it works out, all the better. There are plenty of replacements anyway.”
Once I get a glimpse of that attitude, I’m done after the second meeting—shutters down.
You can tell when a girl is bad at pretending just by looking into her eyes. She has that look of a predator sizing up its prey, lol.
Still, no matter how good someone is at acting, they’ll slip up somewhere eventually.
Try to enjoy yourself while using this as an opportunity to develop your people skills. Some people are also fine with pretending not to notice and simply keeping things peaceful.
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I’m Paper Airplane, a male member.
If I knew, it wouldn’t be so hard. I mean, it’s a club, so it’s basically men saying “sex, sex” and women saying “money, money,” with money at the center of it all…
“Want to see you” = “money, money” (while the man means “sex, sex”).
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