A surprising number of people don’t realize that even slightly long nails can hurt when they touch you, and it’s becoming a real problem. Is it okay to ask them to trim their nails all the way down, with none of the white part left?
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Also, I’m a dental hygienist, and a lot of people have really bad breath. Brushing your teeth is important, of course, but I’d also like people to check for those smelly little tonsil stones in their throats…
That’s difficult to bring up, too.
I’d appreciate any advice.
I’m Tetsu, a male member.
When it comes to dating-club relationships, I think it’s okay to say what’s on your mind.
You may be unsure whether you should say something because, somewhere in your mind, you feel that the man providing the allowance is in the stronger position. But if you’re on equal footing, would you date a man with overgrown fingernails or severe bad breath? Most women probably wouldn’t.
I think telling him what you’d like him to improve can help you decide whether you want to continue seeing him. If he’s a man who wants to maintain a long-term relationship with you, he’ll surely make an effort to improve.
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I’m Kamihikoki, a male member.
It’s fine to point out someone’s nails.
But unless it’s your wife, girlfriend, or family member, it’s hard to tell someone they have bad breath.
Why not create a five-star bad-breath rating system for men at the club, like the star ratings for women?
If he goes to a bad-breath dentist and has no odor, he gets five stars immediately.
Otherwise, does everyone start with one star—or should it be zero? What if some older guy hasn’t taken care of himself at all… wait, do we start him in the negative?
You there, hoping to maintain a long-lasting, happy, ideal relationship with a younger woman reading this!
Go straight to a bad-breath dentist! That’s where you start…
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I’m Fullerene, a male member!
Absolutely, go for it! I don’t think men want to deliberately make women uncomfortable either.
You can just give some reason, like, “I’m worried because things are sensitive down there, so I’d feel more comfortable.” That should be fine. If he gets offended by that, he’s probably the type who has a “you must accept me exactly as I am” complex, so it may be safe to assume things wouldn’t work out in the long run anyway.
As for the tonsil stones, you could conspicuously show him that you’re checking them and pique his interest. Normally, he’d probably go along with it. You could even make it part of a dental-hygienist role-play.
Have fun with your activities!
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This is Maezawa from the CEO’s Office.
Thank you for your question.
First, I think it’s best to hold back from saying anything until you’ve received offers from 10 men. Once you’ve successfully gone on dates with 10 men, you can start cutting off anyone you don’t like.
At that point, you could first ask them to address those two issues and see whether they’re willing to improve.
People can’t tell their own smell, so some men may not know how to deal with it unless you explain exactly where they should go and what they should do.
If a man seems willing to address the issue, I think you should explain it to him clearly.
If he isn’t willing to do anything about it, I don’t think you need to force yourself to continue seeing him.
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