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Dec 22, 2020 11:44
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I’m Tetsu, a male member.
Whether or not it makes you wealthy, I don’t believe you can change your life entirely on your own. It may be relying on others, but I think it comes down to the people you meet. You never know where a life-changing encounter might come from.
Most people who don’t value their connections with others don’t seem very happy. Isn’t spending time with lots of people the first step? From that perspective, joining a dating club might be worth considering too.
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This is Kobayashi from the Tokyo branch.
In the past, we also had a gentleman in his 20s registered with an annual income of just over ¥3 million.
(Though he left after a year…)
You never know when you might meet someone special (lol), so we’d be delighted to hear from you, even if it’s just for a conversation. m(_ _)m
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As Kaz, a male member who’s only moderately well-off, I feel almost presumptuous talking about wealthy people, but here’s my answer.
I’m afraid I have to tell you a harsh reality: effort alone won’t make you rich. The assumption that hard work is enough to become wealthy is flawed from the start. Becoming rich takes 99% luck and 1% effort. I’m putting it like Edison did. That doesn’t mean effort is unnecessary if luck accounts for 99%. Effort is essential for attracting the luck you’re able to influence, apart from the circumstances of your birth.
My driving force was gaining freedom. With money, you can solve most problems. One of the many freedoms I wanted was being able to be with the women I want, whenever I want, so I joined a dating club. I still haven’t achieved the “whenever I want” part. It would be great if there were a wonderful woman who would come over with just one phone call and take care of me according to my mood at the time, but I haven’t found her yet. I need to earn more so I can become wealthy and solve things with money.
As for how to keep up your efforts, I think it’s important to gradually build up successful experiences. If you can’t feel that you’re making progress toward your goal, you won’t be able to keep going. Set plenty of milestones along the way and achieve them one by one. For example, if your goal is annual income, don’t suddenly set several tens of millions of yen as the target. Set milestones of five million yen, seven million yen, and so on. First, seriously consider what you need to do to reach an annual income of five million yen, then put in the effort to achieve it.
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🏅 明け方に低頻度で浮上する回答者です
細く長く続けばいいなあ
Age: 50s
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I’m Fullerene, a male member!
I’m not exactly successful myself, so I’m not sure if I should be commenting, but I’ll give it a try.
...The questioner comes across as quite a perfectionist.
Do you really need an “ideal version of yourself”?
It seems like you’re comparing yourself to that ideal, judging yourself by taking points off, and escaping reality because you’re not satisfied with yourself.
The things you feel you “have to work hard at” are usually the things you can’t stick with. Instead, pay attention to the things you keep doing without having to try so hard. That might be your talent.
Also, try consciously changing the people you normally spend time with.
For some reason, I get the feeling you only associate with the same usual crowd.
Your idea of what’s “normal” changes depending on who you spend time with, and before you know it, you may find yourself putting in effort without even realizing it.
🏅 大阪の昼寝引きこもりトレーダー
スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
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I’m in Seattle.
Since you’re more likely to stick with things you enjoy, I’d suggest putting effort into something you like that could potentially make you money.
You can’t be too lazy about it.
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
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Universe staff
I’m Maezawa from the CEO’s office, and I’ll answer this too.
Thank you for your question.
I’m in no position to tell others how to live, but there’s one thing I can say:
“One day” is a day that will never come.
“I’ll be rich someday” means the day you become rich will never come.
🏅 ４０歳でリアル異世界転生したオッサン l 元金融マン → 現ＡＩ界隈
出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
Age: 40s
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Universe member
I’m Flagmaker, a columnist.
I knew I was naturally undisciplined, so I got married young—at 23—to a strict, intimidating wife. I didn’t realize she’d be quite this scary, though.
Since I had neither personal space nor free time at home, before we had children I either worked because I didn’t want to go home or studied at home.
If you can’t manage yourself, another option is to entrust that responsibility to someone else.
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを！
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中！
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです！
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
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Lately, I’ve been surprised that more and more wonderful people have been saying, “You’re wonderful” to me—something that makes me think, “Wait, why me?” I’m Hikouki, a male member.
You’re getting to the age where you need something you can truly feel confident about.
Also, once you’re past 30, that’s when the real test of whether you’re attractive begins—not just based on your looks.
You may be struggling, thinking, “Something’s different… something’s missing… I should be able to find something…” yet unable to see a way forward.
That’s because confidence, success, trust, and wealth all exist within you—and you’re the one who decides.
Whether you can face what’s right in front of you, solve it, break new ground, and believe in yourself—that’s up to you.
Will you take responsibility for every outcome? Will you take action and change yourself?
In work and in love, can you invest first… without demanding results or anything in return? Can you accept failure—or even being deceived—as your own responsibility?
And right now, instead of reading something like this, go read it 10 or 20 years from now!
First focus on your work, and then enjoy ordinary romantic relationships!