A lot of women have been taking longer to reply to messages this month. Is it probably because they’re busy going on dates with other men?
Some take nearly a week to reply.
One of my favorite women used to reply at night, but now she responds in the morning or during the day instead. 😢
I’m Maki from the staff, and I’ll answer as well.
December tends to be a busy month for everyone. A female friend of mine also recently said that men who send follow-up messages just because she hasn’t replied for a few days are exhausting.
I don’t think you need to worry about it that much.
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I’m Fullerene, a male member!
This question really shows how women can get ahead of the competition simply by making an effort to reply as quickly as possible.
That said, I’d rather you didn’t get carried away with it. (Note to self.)
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I’m Maezawa from the CEO’s Office, and I’ll answer this as well.
Thank you for your question.
If this started this month, then since it’s December, she may simply be busy. For example, even if she asks about your availability, she might think, “I may have a year-end party that day,” and have trouble replying until she knows for sure.
That said, with COVID-19 this year, it seems unlikely that year-end parties are the reason.
Another possibility is that, if she’s seeing multiple men, you may have a low priority. She may not be able to confirm a date with you until she has finalized plans with the men she prioritizes more.
If that’s the case, I think you should seriously consider why your priority is low.
For example, even if your allowance is low, your priority may still rise if you’re highly appealing as a person. If your personal appeal is about equal to someone else’s, the man offering the higher allowance will be prioritized.
If you don’t want to increase the allowance, you need to accept that it’s only natural for your priority to remain low.
You could also take this opportunity to look for someone new. I believe there’s definitely someone out there who will genuinely like you.
With that person, even if the allowance isn’t high, you’ll likely have a higher priority in her eyes.
Ultimately, you have to decide what to do, but I think you should start by accurately assessing the current situation.
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I’m Tetsu, a male member.
I imagine many people are busy with one thing or another at the end of the year. If someone they absolutely wanted to meet contacted them, they’d reply as a top priority. Unfortunately, that means you’re not in that position. Whether for papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) or friendship, you’re probably low on her list of people she wants to see.
If the lack of communication is stressing you out, I think it would be best to move on to someone else.
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I’m Flag Maker, a column writer.
Men who are unhappy with slow replies should go ahead and move on.
That just gives me an advantage for being patient and not complaining about slow replies. (Probably.)
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I’m in Seattle.
Let’s look for someone else. Especially when it’s been a whole week—that’s definitely not a good sign. If they take more than 24 hours to reply, you should accept that they’re only going along with it reluctantly and be prepared to move on.
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I’m Paper Airplane, a male member.
Let’s say goodbye. (That said, I may need to improve by shortening the intervals between replies—sometimes responding right away depending on the content—so we can grow closer.)
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