Tips Dec 19, 2020 19:45

While having drinks and chatting with a female member I’m comfortable with, the conversation turned to other men. She said that when she saw one man’s penis, she thought, “There’s nothing there!?? I could barely pinch it with my fingers (sweat).” During sex, the woman said, “Put it in already♡” and the man replied, “It is in!” Hearing this, I said, “That’s probably the most pride-damaging thing a man can hear (crying).” The woman asked, “Then what should I say?” and I had no answer. My question is: In that situation, what kind of attitude and words would have been appropriate for the woman? I’d appreciate your advice.

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I’m Marika. Men may not have seen other men’s, but there really are guys who are smaller than a pinky finger. You’re thinking, “Wait, what are you doing?”—and then it’s already in, or practically over. As for what to say, if there’s going to be a second time, I guess you could try what Mac suggested.
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I’m Kamihikoki, a male member whose thumb is probably among the longest in Japan. Huh? Smaller than a trans woman’s?? Wait, can that really happen?? Is this just bait…? Even if it was a woman saying it… it sounds completely made up…
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出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
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I’m Flagmaker, a columnist. Don’t let your guard down just because you compare favorably to other men. She might be bad-mouthing you to them, for all you know. That story she told you might just be her go-to “surefire story” for making men feel good. If you savor the dish you’re served and say, “This is delicious,” will the chef be happy? Behind the scenes, there may be motives and calculations at work that you can’t see. That’s how cautious you need to be to survive in this world. Probably, lol.
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I’m Maezawa from the CEO’s office, and I’ll answer this one too. Thanks for your question. > “I can barely pinch it between my fingers (汗)” Do you mean pinching it without looking? That sounds like some kind of advanced technique… Are you feeling around with your hand until you find it and pinch it? I’d assumed you look when you touch it, though. > “Put it in already ♡” (man) “It’s already in!” It seems like you could avoid that situation simply by not saying “put it in.” And if you’re paying close attention to your partner’s private parts, I feel like you’d be able to tell.
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I’m Kazu, a male member. Sorry to interrupt while everyone’s getting excited, but if you were able to see his penis, it must have been bright enough for you to tell what he was doing—and in reality, she probably didn’t say, “Put it in already♡” He likely knows his own size as well, so rather than having the woman put on an act, wouldn’t it be best to simply let it slide as though nothing happened?
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