I’m a male member.

Maezawa from the CEO’s office will answer this one as well. Thank you for your question. > Some people occasionally ask me to use one finger instead of two. Why is that? I think it would be best to ask them directly. The reason probably varies from person to person, but if they’ve asked you that, it means they don’t like two. You’ve received a clear indication that they’re uncomfortable, so I don’t think you need to figure out why—just respect their feelings.

I’m Kazu, a male member. There are certainly women who don’t like having fingers inserted. As Tetsu mentioned, I think many of them have been traumatized by people who were too rough. Women also have different preferences regarding the number of fingers. Some women who used to request two may ask for just one depending on the day. It seems to depend on their mood. So I don’t insert anything until I’m asked to. And when a woman does ask, I make sure to ask how many fingers she prefers. I recommend taking a request-based approach to insertion.

I’m Tetsu, a male member. That really is a completely trivial question (lol), but thanks for giving us something to talk about. When I ask women who don’t really like having fingers inserted why they feel that way, it’s usually because of a past traumatic experience. Once someone has experienced pain, they may tense up or brace themselves. No matter how gentle you intend to be, it’s perfectly understandable that she may not feel it’s gentle from her perspective. Rather than prioritizing your own desires, try building the relationship at her pace. In time, you may eventually get what you’re hoping for. Not unlike that old TV commercial, I think what matters is trust and a proven track record (lol).

I’m Paper Airplane, an M-leaning male member who gets forced to “eat it!” and finish off the leftover half of the cup noodles my daughter ate late at night. One finger is more than enough. (Two only occasionally; if she’s sensitive, you may not even need two.) The key is where you touch. When she’s really close, keep going with your finger until you’ve confirmed that she’s contracting intensely and squeezing tightly. When she contracts that strongly, even an old guy like me can finish at the same time, which feels amazing. Also, many women don’t know that they can feel good internally. Those women will usually say, “I feel more with the clitoris,” so you need to start gently with clitoral stimulation and gradually guide her toward feeling pleasure internally, depending on how she responds. With a finger, you can stimulate four or more points at once—deep inside, closer to the entrance, the entrance itself, and the clitoris—and you can explore both where she feels pleasure and where she climaxes. Even with fingers, internal orgasms should be possible, and may be even better than clitoral ones. Sometimes a woman will ask you to switch between one and two fingers, but in many cases that means she isn’t feeling much yet or hasn’t been fully trained to respond. It can be useful to test whether she really understands what she’s asking for in terms of the number of fingers. > To Flag Maker: For an old perv who can think of nothing but sex, this was a delightful question...

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