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Dec 17, 2020 10:14
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This is Marika.
If you’re staying overnight, I don’t see the point in not doing it in the morning.
I hope you both find someone whose expectations match your own!
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Maezawa from the CEO’s Office here.
Thanks for your question.
As others have said, I’m wondering why you feel the need to ask in the first place.
It’s important to clarify anything that’s off-limits. For example, you shouldn’t make assumptions about whether to use protection, so that’s something you need to ask about.
But when it comes to the morning, right after waking up, I think it’s probably fine to go with the flow. Of course, if she doesn’t like it, you need to stop immediately.
And you should never force anything when she isn’t ready.
If you keep those points in mind, I think things should go well.
Other
I’m Tetsu, a male member.
Even if you ask, “How about this morning?” you probably won’t get a positive response. It’s only hypothetical, after all.
Rather than overthinking it, why not gently hold or touch her in bed in the morning? If she responds well, things might naturally progress from there… If she doesn’t, just let it go (lol).
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを！
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中！
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです！
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Paper Airplane, a male member who gets kicked and sent flying by his sleeping wife every night.
> “I’m not in the mood. If someone did that to me while I was sleepy, I might hit them.”
That’s the most perfectly ordinary response you’d expect. (You really didn’t need to ask something like that.)
Before she’s fully awake in the morning, if you initiate things quickly—oral sex or gentle penetration right away—I think she’d actually embrace you comfortably in return.
Slow, gentle caressing and sex while drowsily drifting in and out of sleep feels wonderful. (You don’t need permission.)
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
I get the feeling this may be an issue with how you make your request. If you ask, “How about in the morning?” it’s only natural to get that kind of response. But if you ask before going to bed, “I’d like to do it in the morning, so would you be willing to?” I think she’ll agree. In my case, she did when I asked.
More generally, I feel that many women are willing to accommodate a man’s requests as long as they aren’t too unreasonable. Having sex with him is an example of that, isn’t it? So, just as you would ask her to have sex with you because you want to be intimate with her when the relationship begins, I think the right approach is to ask her if you can do it in the morning because that’s what you’d like.
Adding this after reading Mack’s answer:
As Mack said, you shouldn’t ask in a tense or overly serious way. Keep it as casual as asking, “Mind if I use the bathroom?”