I’m the person who asked on December 12, “How do you decide who to choose when the girl hasn’t done anything wrong?”
I have another question.
I’m struggling with something.
Which would you choose: a woman who fills the emotional void in your heart and satisfies you mentally, but with whom you can’t quite reach ejaculation in an adult relationship, or a woman with whom you can reach ejaculation, but who provides little mental satisfaction?
Some people might think that, from a long-term perspective, mental fulfillment should come first, followed by sexual satisfaction.
I’m unsure which of the two I place greater importance on when it comes to the club. Actually, at this point, I don’t know myself.
I’m struggling with how to prioritize the heart and the body.
Have any of you faced a similar dilemma?
I’d like to use everyone’s opinions as a reference and decide on my own direction.
Thank you in advance for your input.
I’m Fulleren, a male member!
You don’t have to force yourself to choose one, do you? Why not keep both going for now and gradually drop whichever one becomes less frequent?
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I’m Paper Airplane, a male member.
Huh?
Both of you clearly have serious shortcomings (and are dissatisfied).
Hmm?
Couldn’t the problem actually be with you?
One day, you’ll end up at the very bottom.
Quit the Patience Club.
P.S. More than worrying about the women, I think it’s important to develop your own style—the right touch and flow—that gets both your mind and body excited and fulfilled…
Without your own satisfaction, you can’t fulfill your partner emotionally or physically, nor can you convey your pleasure. Neither of you should be left feeling unsatisfied.
With a romantic partner, you can’t change your physical compatibility, but love that more than makes up for it can cover the difference.
At a club, first connect emotionally, then connect physically too. Start by fulfilling your partner’s heart and body. The club is where you can quickly find someone who fulfills each other.
Forget about priorities—go after both. Otherwise, it’s just boring, sitting around worrying and fretting… What a waste.
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Maezawa from the CEO’s office here.
Thank you for your question.
I think seeing both of them would be a good balance.
As you date different women, you’ll gradually figure out what you really want, so I’d recommend making plenty of offers and dating a variety of women.
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Our Tokyo staff would also like to respond.
Since you don’t know for sure at this point, I think it would be best not to choose one over the other yet. You may end up regretting it later.
You may feel guilty toward the woman you’ve been seeing regularly, but it might be worth meeting someone else as well.
There may be someone who can fulfill both your emotional and physical needs.
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This is Ikegaya from the Tokyo staff.
The answer may vary depending on whether you’re looking more for emotional or physical comfort, but I think the best approach would be to maintain a well-balanced relationship with both of them. That way, it should be easier to recover if anything unexpected happens.
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I’m a lost man in my 60s.
To maintain my own balance as well, I want to treat them equally…
I want both women to become even more wonderful…
You’re the one who makes a woman shine.
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