I started feeling physically uncomfortable around my dinner-only papa, so I made up some random excuses hoping he’d dislike me—but he still said he wanted to see me anyway.
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So this time, I asked him to increase my allowance, and fortunately, we were able to end the arrangement.
What excuses do you all use when turning someone down?
Sometimes I feel like blocking them is probably the most peaceful way to handle it.
I’m だて◎ゆめ, a male member.
A dating club involves a relationship with money exchanged. If the current allowance arrangement isn’t satisfying for both parties, adjusting it is the most reasonable option.
I think asking for a higher allowance would be perfectly fine.
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Maezawa from the president’s office here—I’ll answer this one too.
Thanks for your question.
> When I asked for an increase in my allowance, we were able to end the relationship without any trouble.
I hear this kind of story pretty often, so I do think that approach can work. However, the man may tell the club something like:
“She’s all about money and even demanded ¥XX,000. You probably shouldn’t introduce her to anyone else.”
The staff won’t necessarily take his word for it, but it can still leave them with the impression that she was overly money-focused, so I don’t really recommend that method.
I think simply blocking him is still the best option.
And if you change your mind later, you can always say, “I changed phones and lost your contact information...” and there’s a chance you could reconnect years down the line.（笑）
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I’m Tetsu, a male member.
I think the most peaceful option is probably to block her. Even if you find out why she dislikes you, it would be difficult to repair the relationship. And the person explaining why they don’t want to continue seeing you would feel awkward too. In situations like this, I believe an ambiguous ending is kinder to both sides and leaves less hurt.
Rather than pursuing it any further, I think it would be more enjoyable to look for a new connection.
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I’m Paper Airplane, a male member.
I’m glad you were able to end things without any trouble.
Some people just don’t get it—even if you explain every reason you dislike them or aren’t enjoying things, their mindset is so warped that they won’t give up, almost like stalkers.
Leaving their messages unread or demanding an unreasonable increase in the allowance might be effective.
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