I’m a male member. This is about something that happened a little while ago—I was the one who asked the question below.

https://universe-club.jp/help/questions/view/4997 Something happened that was different from what everyone, myself included, expected. She contacted me three days later. Since I had emailed her in advance asking which dates and times she was available in December, she told me when she was free, and we ended up scheduling a meeting for this weekend. In fact, that was the only time she replied. Regarding the meeting place, all I’ve received is a read receipt on the message I sent in response. I was very happy to hear from her after I had already given up, but since then, another woman introduced to me by the club has turned out to be the best I’ve ever met in terms of how comfortable I feel with her and how responsive she is—we’ve already met four times. Because of that, I can feel my initial excitement fading. I understand what everyone said about not comparing women and that each person has her own good qualities, but hearing from her only once in an entire month really makes me feel that I’m barely on her radar at all, and I’ve started wondering whether I should tell her I’m canceling. On the other hand, aside from her email response time, she really is a lovely woman, so I’m debating whether I should be honest with her if we manage to meet this weekend. I joined the club this year and have had all sorts of experiences. I’ve even gradually managed to accept last-minute cancellations as part of dating—I’m grateful to Paper Airplane for that way of thinking. In that sense, part of me also wants to experience a date where we’ve exchanged only one message to set the date and time, with nothing but a read receipt afterward, and see whether we really do end up meeting. This may sound petty, but I also keep thinking about the cancellation fee for the restaurant I booked in the genre she likes, as well as the hotel cancellation fee. And, to be completely honest about the even more questionable part, I’m scheduled to have a Christmas date with another woman the day after I’m supposed to meet her. My question is: if you were in my position, how would you handle this? Thank you in advance.